Shareology

How Sharing Is Powering the Human Economy

Bryan Kramer

• Publisher: Morgan James Publishing
• Year: 2019
• eBook ISBN: 9781630473853
• Topic: Business
• Subtopic: Business General
• Index: Business

USA Today Bestseller: A top social media strategist explores how human connection drives success.
 
Technology continues to evolve and make our lives busier and more complicated, but it can never replace true human connection—our fundamental need to share information, stories, and emotions. Shareology explores the history, art, and science of sharing, and why sharing gives us a unique competitive advantage as individuals and brands.
 
For entrepreneurs and marketers who want to make their content more valuable and shareable, and for individuals who want to grow their personal brand, Fortune 500 consultant and popular TED speaker Bryan Kramer offers wisdom worth sharing—plus contributions from experts and business leaders on a variety of topics. Shareology covers:
 

• Sharing in the Human Economy
• The Importance of Context
• The Human Business Movement
• Sharing: A Sensory Experience
• Timing Is Everything
• Redefining Influencers Inside and Out
• Connections and Conversations
• Creating Shared Experiences
• What Makes Stuff Worth Sharing
• Brands on Sharing

The Sharing Future: What's Next?

PART I

THE SHAREOLOGY BACKSTORY

Sharing is a fundamental human behavior central to our survival as a human race. Whether we’re sharing stories, processes, insights, philosophies, techniques, or secrets, it’s how we connect to each other and advance as a society.

Now with technologies like the Internet, video, social media, and mobile, sharing has increased its ease and scale to a global level. Information is no longer confined to geographical boundaries; proximity is no longer required to pass information from one human to another.

This radical shift requires an understanding of how these technologies have impacted, and will continue to impact, our global society. Without this understanding of sharing patterns and analyzing what will resonate with other humans, ideas will be lost and change will be stifled.

How, what, why, and where we share as individuals in our new connected technological world has the power to influence and to effect change worldwide. After thirty thousand years of sharing information in the same way, yet faced in the last twenty years with the emergence of technologies that connect global tribes together, humans need to rethink the way we share ideas as a global community.

Now yes, this is all important to our communities, countries, and world. But the truth is, on a much more personal level, sharing saved my career.

After ten years as president of a Silicon Valley marketing firm, I was lost. I couldn’t understand why; our multimillion-dollar business was thriving, showered with awards and global press. The operations, finance, and business development divisions were well-oiled machines. I found myself without a place to contribute to my own company. People were excited and eager to be a part of our business—everyone but me.

I contemplated quitting. I didn’t have a purpose.

Desperate to connect to something, I found an unexpected kinship with social media. I don’t care much for crowds or large groups of people; in fact, I am an introvert by nature, regaining my energy by being alone or with a trusted few. But over time I realized that social media gave me vast platforms to share my voice, my ideas, my contributions to anything and anyone—and people listened. They engaged, and I found myself wanting to figure out why. For three years I deconstructed these platforms and tried to understand why some ideas took off like wildfire and others died on the vine. I started to recognize patterns in sentiment and the importance of timing in making an idea explode into reality; and I connected and became social friends with some of the most inspirational thinkers in the world.

This experience profoundly affected my life, and it’s what I chose to talk about when IBM asked me to speak at their TED (Technology, Entertainment and Design) event. More about that later.

Following the twists and turns of social philosophy and technology has made me an authentic leader and ushered me into what I believe is my destiny: to share what I’ve learned with others and change the way we think about communicating with one another.

So let’s dive right into Shareology.

CHAPTER 1

THE IMPORTANCE OF SHARING

Humans have been sharing resources and knowledge since they first banded together in prehistoric times, even before there was language. We shared to survive then, but we continue to share knowledge even though survival is no longer at stake. Or is it?

Philosophers have long pondered the nature of mankind and why we interact the way we do. We share for many reasons—some self-serving and some not—but I firmly believe that our need to share is based on the human instinct not only to survive, but to thrive.

Things are moving at a faster pace today for humankind than ever before, and we’re more connected now than we’ve ever been. We’re no longer polarized by geography, by race, by gender—but we still need each other to survive. Time has spread us across the globe, and the need to connect is written into our DNA, even though we’re competing for the same limited space on this planet.

So what does this have to do with where we are today? Why is this important?

Because we’re on the cusp of something big: a shift in human evolution.

Digital and Social Technologies Are Making a HUGE Impact

The Digital Age is a big part of this new shift in human evolution. The technology explosion of the last few years is teaching us to interact in a new way.

Social media, while it has had a big impact by itself, is just a piece of a bigger picture that is growing and expanding by the minute. It’s exciting, but it’s also a little scary. We’re on the upward curve of a wave that’s going to change our lives forever.

The digital and social technologies that have sprung up are connecting us to the rest of the world. That’s the first part of this wave. The cusp I referred to earlier—the top of the wave—is that these technologies and ways of communicating are also transforming our physical world.

For example, 3-D printers, the stuff of science fiction just a decade or two ago, are now allowing us to manufacture parts and materials—from biomaterials and implants for the medical industry to aerospace technologies and manufacturing—that transform the way we live. We can even print clothing and food. Imagine the impact this will have when 3-D printing technology becomes commonplace (and it’s getting there). We’ll be able to order things like jackets, gourmet meals, or cars and have them printed and delivered immediately—or even print them ourselves in the comfort of our own home.

Another example is the sensors that connect things and people, such as wearable technology like Apple Watch and Fitbit. Even the Tesla self-driving car that can navigate and steer its way to any destination demonstrates the rapid evolution of technologies that connect our digital and physical world. At this point, we are limited only by our imaginations regarding what could be next.

Resisting the Cocoon

In our lifetimes we’ve seen some pretty amazing things come to pass. Back in 1991, I read a book that I’ll never forget—The Popcorn Report¹ by Faith Popcorn. It outlined her predictions about the impact of technologies that enable us to cocoon in our homes. The idea was that we’d no longer need to coexist outside. Everything would be delivered. You could work from home because everything would be remote. People would have Internet connections, remote conferences, watch keynotes on big screens without leaving their bedrooms. Anything you would need to eat, sleep, and work would all be deliverable within your own space. Well, that’s all here now. Just a little over twenty years later, we are technologically enabled to safely cocoon in our homes without sacrificing anything we need to survive.

Amazon, Google Express, and Instacart are prime examples of brands that are making this concept real for us today. Their next-day and same-day delivery of goods and services fills a need that we have been clamoring for: saving time. Frankly, I’ve tried to beat their system, ordering just one small item like a container of dental floss or placing a huge order then choosing a delivery time to my house just a few hours later. In every instance, they come through with delivery as promised, with a smile. How do they do that?

The Digital Age has made everyone busier, more accessible, and managing more devices, so saving time is a big deal. However, what’s happened in the last decade has profoundly affected us socially. Most all of us have experienced a decrease in our connection with each other physically because we can “connect” online. The things Faith Popcorn predicted weren’t science fiction. They were just the beginning of this big new shift. But there’s more coming, and it’s important to understand what that will look like, and the way it will impact us as people and as brands.

As humans, the thought of totally cocooning creeps us out a bit. We don’t want to think that we will exist just in our homes and never venture outside. With reality TV shows like Hoarders or movies that depict people who struggle with agoraphobia (the fear of being outside), Hollywood makes us cringe at the idea. Although technology makes it easier to insulate ourselves, we still need to leave the house, or at the very least, step outside our front doors.

Why? Because our biggest need as humans is connection. I’m not talking about basic needs like food, shelter, and clothing. I’m talking about the need to find a tribe. Our need to belong. Our need to contribute to something greater than ourselves and be acknowledged for it by another human. Social ceases to exist without it, because people must connect with other people. We crave it. We’ll fight for it. Who wants a world without family reunions, anniversaries, and dinner with friends?

So Why Do We Share at All?

In my research for this book I interviewed more than one hundred people to figure out what motivates us to share. What I’ve discovered is that behind all the reasons people say we share, whether it’s to help someone, make them laugh, or alert them to something, there is really only one reason at the core of human sharing: self-perception.

Now, before you start ranting, “But wait, Bryan, that seems too selfish a reason; there has to be something deeper,” let me explain.

Our own estimation of ourselves means a lot to each one of us because that’s our identity as humans. We also care about what others think of us because we need to connect with them and belong to a tribe, and to do this we need to align ourselves with other humans. In the marketing world, this is branding. And as humans, because technology has empowered us to share with our global tribe, it’s never been more important to treat ourselves as a personal brand.

Creating and sharing information is important, but creating and sharing our personal brand is what shapes the way people perceive us and connects us to the tribes that matter.

To help put a little science around this, my team and I spent quite a bit of time pondering the legitimacy of this formula:

This formula shows that personal reputation is equal to the perceived reputation of the content or source that’s being shared. In other words, I will only share something with others that is in line with how I perceive myself and how I want to be perceived. Do I identify with being “the first to know”? If I did, I would probably share content I felt was late-breaking news. Do I identify with being humorous? Then I would share jokes or other things I thought were funny. Do I want others to see me as a helpful connector? Then I would probably share information directly with someone I thought I could help.

Most of this is done unconsciously because we’re all very multidimensional, non-self-actualized, busy humans.

However, when you consciously recognize your own personal brand, whether it be creativity, love, justice, humor, science, or whatever you truly love and care about, then the ideas you share will connect you to others that care about the same thing.

But what about brands that are trying to build online communities and build relationships? How can they thrive in a digital world?

The Secret Sauce for Brands

As far as brands are concerned, one of the biggest shortcomings of the Digital Age is the disconnection between their own self-recognition as an entity and the individual humans they’re trying to serve. Brands most often turn to technology first to make quick connections at scale but forget what makes people want to interact with them in the first place—a human-to-human connection. This is especially true on social channels.

We’ve all heard the axiom that our customers are at the center of our business, and that our brand reputations are now in the hands of the consumer. That may be true, but how can these brands compete in a social space where the scales have tipped and consumers have more control?

As my friend Jay Baer says about social platforms, “You’re not just competing with other brands for their attention, you’re also competing with their friends, family, music playlists, soccer games, and nights out on the town.”

It’s a noisy feed out there, each one being different, unique, and personalized to each individual user. The one thing you have in your favor? When you understand why we share and how we interact with each other, you regain a place as a potential friend to your customers instead of being perceived by them as a cold, insensitive entity with no redeeming aspects with which to connect. If this isn’t a competitive advantage, I don’t know what is.

We want our social followers to share what we have to say, and we become disappointed when they don’t. But are you saying anything that’s worthy of sharing? Does what you share fill a human need or desire? Have you connected with people in a way that strikes a chord? What is it that makes a piece of social communication shareable?

The Shareability Quotient

To help brands share, we developed what we call “The Shareability Quotient.”

Much like a personal brand, no doubt your company has built a brand around a set of core values that reflect what’s important to your audience. They perceive your brand as either a trusted source or as having insightful, helpful, funny, or valuable content. The Shareability Quotient says that the likelihood of a share is greater than or equal to the perceived reputation of your content or tru...

Table of contents

• Cover
• Title
• Copyright
• Table of Contents
• Dedication
• Acknowledgments
• PART I The Shareology Backstory
• PART II The -Ology of Sharing
• About the Author
• Web Resources