Loving Black Boys

A Black Feminist Bible on Racism and Revolutionary Mothering

Tamura Lomax

• Publisher: Duke University Press Books
• Year: 2026
• Print ISBN:
  9781478038702
  9781478033790
• eBook ISBN:
  9781478062288
• Topic: Social Sciences
• Subtopic: Religion
• Index: Social Sciences

Loving Black Boys is not just a love letter to Tamura Lomax's own sons, but to all Black boys, men, fathers, and brothers. With understanding and urgency, Lomax writes honestly about Black endangerment and what it means to endure living in what James Baldwin called the "burning house" of white supremacist capitalist heteropatriarchal America. Seeing the full humanity of Black boys and men, and the liberation of all Black people, Lomax writes, requires a Black feminist lens. A companion piece to Freeing Black Girls, this book connects the everyday and extraordinary moments of Black mothering: phenomena as varied as "the talk" about police brutality, physical and emotional violence, Christian nationalism, miseducation, emotional health, sports, and more, which produce not only shared vulnerabilities but also tensions among Black folks. To her sons and to all Black men, Lomax insists that Black feminism, which emphasizes mutuality, protection, ethical autonomy, and healing, is vital to forging a safer future for individual and collective survival.

Table of contents

• Cover
• Contents
• Author’s Note
• Acknowledgments
• Introduction. Surviving White Supremacy: A Practice of Black Living Hope
• 1. Proverbs for Black Boys: A Letter to My Sons (Writing the Kitchen Table)
• 2. Periodizing and Parrying Crisis: Black Mothering from the Other America, or Notes from the Field
• 3. The Talk: Public Enemy #1 (“Is God a White Racist?")
• 4. Bloodletting in the Mouth of a Dragon: Black Patriarchy Won’t Save Us
• 5. Total and Absolute War: The Miseducation of Black Boys
• 6. #ProtectBlackMen: For Michael Brown, Freddie Gray, Michael Singleton, and All Black Boys
• 7. Competing Pandemics: Autonomy, Misogynoir, and Rape Are Urgent Black Matters
• Coda. Parable of the Living: Surviving Octavia Butler’s America While Black
• Notes
• Bibliography
• Index