1. CHOSEN BY GOD
Matthew 1
LEADERāS INSIGHT
Imagine being able to trace your ancestors back to the beginning of time.
Thatās what Matthew 1 does for Jesus. Most of us are lucky if we know our great-grandparents. Jesus knew his great, great, great . . . (Iād better stop here; I donāt have enough space for the number of greats I need.) If you look closely, you can see that Matthew does it for a purpose. Old Testament prophecy was fulfilled through Jesusā lineage.
In Matthew 1, we see that Joseph was handpicked to be Jesusā earthly father. Though his seed wasnāt in Jesus, his family was the context through which Jesus came. It was Joseph who made Jesusā lineage so special.
Sometimes we brush over genealogies because they seem boring. But donāt miss the details of this one with your students. To see Abraham at the beginning, giving Jesus his Jewish roots. To see King David in the middle, revealing the royalty from which he came. To notice that all five women in the lineup have stories of amazing grace, showing God can take the mess of our lives and do great things if we let him.
Genealogies carry important details that reveal insights about who we are. This genealogy carries important details about who God isāand how he came in the person of Jesus.
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Warm-Up Questions
⢠If God came to you in a dream and gave you a plan for your life that was different than yours, would you follow it?
⢠What do you know about your genealogy? Is there anything you know about your parents or grandparents that tells you more about who you are?
⢠How much of your life do you think is preplanned? How much do you think happens by choice?
Observe
Observation Questions
⢠Where does the genealogy begin in Matthew 1? Whose name is at the end, before Jesus? How many generations are represented? (See verse 17.)
⢠What did Joseph have in mind when he found out Mary was pregnant?
⢠How did God come to Joseph? What did God say? What Old Testament verse is referenced in verse 23?
⢠What did Joseph do after God spoke to him? Did he have union with his wife before Jesus was born?
Think
Interpretation Questions
⢠Do you think Joseph was preplanned to be Jesusā earthly father? Why/Why not?
⢠What does verse 19 tell you about the kind of man Joseph was? Do you think he was cruel or kind?
⢠How do verses 22-23 show Godās providence in this situation? Do you think Mary and Joseph had a choice regarding how they responded to God?
⢠What does verse 24 say about Josephās faith? What does verse 25 reveal about Jesusā birth? Based on this verse, what kind of father was Joseph to Jesus?
Apply
Application Questions
⢠How far back can you trace your genealogy? Is there anyone in your genealogy who is famous for something?
⢠If you were Joseph, do you think you would have done what the Lord told him to do? Why/Why not?
⢠On a scale of 1-10, how much faith do you think Joseph had? (1=no faith, 10=a lot of faith). Where would you put yourself on that scale?
⢠What is one dream you have for your life? Have you ever had a dream you felt God wanted you to do?
Do
Optional Activity
Have your students write out their genealogies as far as they know them. Then, over the next week, have them trace their genealogies as far back as they are ableāby interviewing their parents, grandparents, great-grandparents, etc., to find out all the information they can. Have them come back to the group next week with one fact about their genealogies that surprises them, a person in their genealogies who inspires them, and a quality they have inherited from someone they admire.
QUIET TIME REFLECTIONS
Day 1: Matthew 1:1-5
⢠What word or verse stands out to you from this passage? Why?
⢠Who were the three women in this part of the genealogy? What do you know about their stories? (See Genesis 38, Joshua 2, Ruth 1.)
⢠Spend time today thinking about how God can make our story part of his story when we give our life to him.
Day 2: Matthew 1:6-11
⢠What word or verse stands out to you from this passage? Why?
⢠Why do you think Bathsheba is listed as Uriahās wife rather than Davidās? (See 2 Samuel 11.) What does that tell you about how God remembers us?
⢠Spend time today thinking about how God honors us when we do the right thing even when we get hurt by it.
Day 3: Matthew 1:12-17
⢠What word or verse stands out to you from this passage? Why?
⢠Whose line did Jesusā genealogy come through, Mary or Joseph? What does that tell you about the importance of Joseph in Maryās selection as the mother of Jesus?
⢠Spend time thinking about how God is concerned with every detail of our lives and has a plan for each one of us!
Day 4: Matthew 1:18-19
⢠What word or phrase stands out to you from these verses? Why?
⢠What does Josephās response to Maryās pregnancy tell you about the kind of man he was?
⢠Spend time thinking today about how you would respond to circumstances that were not what you wanted.
Day 5: Matthew 1:20-21
⢠What word or phrase stands out to you from these verses? Why?
⢠What did the angel tell Joseph to do? How do you think he felt when he heard this?
⢠Spend time thinking about what you would do if God told you to do something way outside your comfort zone.
Day 6: Matthew 1:22-25
⢠What word or verse stands out to you from this passage? Why?
⢠What prophecy did Mary fulfill in this chapter? (See Isaiah 7:14.) What was Jesus going to be called?
⢠Spend time thinking today about what it means that Jesus was ImmanuelāGod with us.
Day 7: Matthew 1
Read through the whole chapter and write out the verse that spoke to you most this week. Meditate on that verse todayāand for an extra challenge, memorize it!
2. THE REAL KING
Matthew 2
LEADERāS INSIGHT
What makes a king a king?
Your students are familiar with the idea of monarchy from watching the royal family in Great Britain. A king (or queen) is different from a president. You cannot ārunā for king; you can only be born one. That is true for both kings in Matthew 2.
The second chapter of Matthew contrasts two kings: Herod and Jesus. Both were born into their positions; however, one had a power that far exceeded the other. As the chapter goes on, your students will see which one was the real king.
When the Magi arrived from the east, the people of Jerusalem directed them to Herod. However, the stars were directing them somewhere else. Herodās discomfort at the birth of Jesus revealed who held the real power. We also see Jesus as the true king in the dreams threaded through this chapter. God used peopleās dreams to protect and position Jesus away from harm. There was a greater power at work than Herodās control.
In the end, Herod tried to stop Jesus by using his power in the most destructive way possible. Thousands of innocent young lives were lost, but Jesus wasnāt one of them. Even as a baby, Jesus was above Herodās control, proving that he was the real king.
He still is.
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Warm-Up Questions
⢠When you think of a king, what is the first image that comes to your mind? In your opinion, who is the greatest historical king who ever lived?
⢠Have you ever studied the stars? What is the most unusual thing youāve ever seen in the sky? (Shooting...