1AMERICAâS VIRGINITY FETISH AND THE MYSTERIES OF CHILD MOLESTATION
CHILD MOLESTATION IS, and has been for decades, one of Americanâs current greatest obsessions. As of this writing, the Internet Movie Database lists 386 films and television series or episodes in which pedophilia or the sexual abuse of a child or children is a key plot element. But this is by no means a complete list. It leaves out dozens of horror and straight-to-video action films in which sexual molestation of a child motivates the heroic actions of an avenging hero or heroine, as well as many films that reference molestation as a motivation for a characterâs behavior or emotional responses without actually showing the molestation. Leaving aside the numerous documentaries on the topic, many of which deal with child molestation within the Catholic Church, a short list of well-known films made in recent years that dramatize and unambiguously condemn the damage done by pedophiles includes the following: The Boys of St. Vincent (dir. John N. Smith, 1992), Sleepers (dir. Barry Levinson, 1996), Bastard Out of Carolina (dir. Angelica Huston, 1996), Adrian Lyneâs remake of Lolita (1997), A Thousand Acres (dir. Jocelyn Moor-house, 1997), Happiness (dir. Todd Solondz, 1998), The Woodsman (dir. Nicole Kassell, 2004), La mala education (Bad Education, dir. Pedro AlmodĂłvar, 2004), Hard Candy (dir. David Slade, 2005), The Kite Runner (dir. Marc Forster, 2007), Precious (dir. Lee Daniels, 2009), and Big Bad Wolves (dir. Aharon Keshales and Navot Papushado, 2013). As is the case in the last film listed, numerous films and television episodes treat child molestation as intrinsically connected to murder, suggesting that the ultimate aim of all pedophiles is to kill children. Many others, such as Hannibal (dir. Ridley Scott, 2001), feature torture deaths of pedophiles, presented as entirely justified due to the terribleness of the menâs crimes. Other traditions of dramatizing the damage done by pedophiles follow different traditions. For instance, the film Precious is true to Sapphireâs novel, Push (1996), on which it is based. Both follow the tradition of the landmark novels I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou (1969), The Bluest Eye by Toni Morrison (1970), and The Color Purple by Alice Walker (1982) in representing the sexual abuse of black girls as both a brutal reality and an emblem of the oppression of their race. In the challenge they represent to traditional patriarchal domination of children, they are radical. However, in that their treatment of pedophilia reflects and promulgates current cultural ideology, which holds pedophilia to be the worst possible moral failing, they are liberal rather than radical. Moreover, most films that depict childhood and adolescent sexual experiences uphold the traditional construction of youth as a time of sexual purity that is foundational to the vision of intergenerational sex as inevitably being monstrous violation.
In this chapter I first examine a group of films that, through contrast with one another, provide an overview of international cinematic treatments of the loss of virginity, a narrative topic that reveals much about current constructions of female sexuality and their often surprisingly close relation to concepts of the sexuality of children. In particular, Catherine Hardwickeâs Thirteen (2003) and Catherine Breillatâs Ă ma soeur! (2001, released as Fat Girl in the United States) are shown to reveal much about how basically laudable liberal feminist attempts to protect young girls can go tragically awry because of their insistence on totalizing female and youthful sexualities. I then discuss two films that offer opposed perspectives on child molestationâone, Mystic River (2003), directed by Clint Eastwood, that was well received and adheres to the conventions of liberal representation of the crime but takes them to an unsettling extreme, and another, Mysterious Skin (2004), directed by Gregg Araki, that received more negative attention and is equally disturbing, but for truly radically different reasons.
From the onset I want to emphasize again that I do not advocate changes in statutory rape laws, although some of the queer theorists and sexuality studies authors I cite do. Recommending legislative changes is beyond the scope of this book. As Chuck Kleinhans observes, âWe live in a time of contested understandings of childhood,â and as a result âof proliferating erotic images of children, other forces at many social levels attempt to control and contain child sexuality, especially in image culture,â and this is as true of art and popular cinematic allusions to the sexual experiences of children and adolescents as it is of anything that could be called pornographic (71). The point of the chapter is to show that by attending to sex radical cinematic representations of young peopleâs sexuality, we can gain useful understanding of the complexities involved in regulating the sexuality of minors for their own protection. Perhaps, too, we can begin to understand how a liberal approach to protecting the young from premature sexual experiences can sometimes unexpectedly increase the problems of victims of sexual abuse by denying their own feelings and silencing their voices.
But before discussing these films, for the necessary contextualization it offers, I take a long look at the fetishization of childhood purity that serves as the foundation of our cultureâs consuming fear that the young will be sexually corrupted. Controversial as this statement might initially seem, it becomes easier to understand the panic white people often exhibit about the possible effects of integration on their children if we can acknowledge that African Americans often do seem to have more progressive ideas about sexuality than mainstream white people, at least as those ideas are expressed in popular culture media, including the movies.
One might not reach this conclusion from talking to African American feminist scholars, who are often engaged in counteracting the racist myth of the hypersexualized black woman, but as Shayne Lee provocatively puts it, âWhile Black feminist scholars patrol the airways for degrading images of women, African-American women in popular culture recommence a legacy of insubordination against the politics of respectabilityâ (xii). In his celebratory survey of fictional and self-help books, television shows, comedy performances, and popular music, Lee emphasizes a subordinated culture in which black women consistently represent themselves as âsensual, sexual beingsâ with agency rather than as the nasty animals in heat that the mainstream culture has often deemed them. He also demonstrates ways that this culture has spoken back to the racism of a mainstream that demands that they must be either sexless Mammies or whores available to all men (41). Lee attributes his sense that sexual activity can empower women to having grown up in âan unprecedented era where Black women in popular culture champion[ed] sexual agency in the public sphereâ (109, 124).1
The tendency of African Americans to be less rigidly judgmental about sexual issues than whites was a major issue during the Clinton-Lewinski scandal, for example, when âno constituency [was] more visible in its support for the beleaguered president than African Americans. And no group of lawmakers may be more critical in protecting him against an increasingly hostile Congress than the Black Caucus,â according to an article in the Washington Post by Ceci Connolly and Robert Pierre, who attribute this loyalty to the tradition of forgiveness within their communities. Obviously, attitudes about sex are not racial characteristics, but, if they exist at all, are created by specific cultures. Thus, for instance, British people of African descent, like the filmmaker Steve McQueen, may exhibit the same sort of liberal but majoritarian antisex attitudes that characterize white Americans in the mainstream, as are on display in McQueenâs 2011 film, Shame, which dramatizes the sufferings of a victim of so-called sex addiction, in this case a single man who pursues casual sexual encounters and masturbates.
In contrast to McQueenâs drama, African American romantic comedies typically provide interesting examples of attitudes about sexuality that seem markedly different from those of the American white mainstream, as I discuss in New Millennial Sexstyles. A case in point is Jumping the Broom (2011), directed by Salim Akil and written by Elizabeth Hunter and Arlene Gibbs. The story seems intended to appeal to a religious conservative audience, but that audience is also obviously imagined as African American. The film begins with Sabrina (Paula Patton), a successful and beautiful young black woman from a wealthy family, suffering humiliation and profound disappointment when the morning after a casual sexual encounter, she overhears her partner speaking sweetly of the love he feels. She believes he is talking to her, until she realizes that he is on his cell phone with another woman. She promises God not to have sex again until after marriage but in return asks him to find her a soul mate. When the soul mate, in the form of up-and-coming Jason (Laz Alonso), is divinely delivered to her, their wedding nearly fails to take place due to the machinations of the groomâs possessive, postal clerk mother, Pam (Loretta Devine). Pam feels threatened by the wealth and privilege of the brideâs family, whose mansion on Marthaâs Vineyard is stunningly impressive and whose French-speaking maternal line is represented by snobbish Claudine (Angela Bassett), the brideâs mother. Claudine proudly explains that their ancestors never were slaves and instead had slaves.
âJumping the broomâ is the symbolic act that can bring together the two family traditions. If the bride chooses to include it in the wedding ceremony, then the legacy of African American practices developed in resistance to slavery will be brought into the ceremony that otherwise represents the groomâs entry into the brideâs world of upper-class privilege. Subplots include the revelation that the bride is the biological daughter of the woman she knows as her aunt Geneva (Valarie Pettiford), a sexy cosmopolitan singer; Claudineâs struggle with her husbandâs withdrawal from her because of his guilt about having lost the bulk of her family fortune through bad investments; and the efforts of Sebastian (Romeo Miller), a small and very young-looking twenty-year-old on the brideâs side of the family, to seduce Shonda (Tasha Smith), the big, sexy, over-forty best friend of the groomâs mother.
There are several notable features of the film in relation to mainstreamâthat is, whiteâadvocacy of premarital abstinence. No one, including the avuncular minister who performs the ceremony, pressures the young couple to be celibate prior to marriage. One might compare his sophisticated acceptance of premarital sexuality to that of some of the exemplary preachers and authors of religious instructional texts discussed by Lee in his chapter âBlack Clergywomen and Sexual Discourseâ (82â94), whose âbooks and sermons provide honest discourses on sexual realismâ despite the âregressive elements of their sexual politicsâ that come from their religious conservatism (90).
Instead of depicting Sabrina and Jasonâs decision to maintain celibacy until marriage as demanded by their religion, the film represents it as a free and idiosyncratic choice. Yet the members of both families are clearly very religious, often referring to having âprayed onâ this or that decision. And both families are sexually respectable in their own ways. Pam is obviously proud of the broom she and her husband jumped at their wedding, which represents her sonâs legal legitimacy, although this is not explicitly mentioned. And proper Claudine reacts with moral outrage when it is suggested (erroneously) that her husband is having an affair. But both families treat Sabrinaâs vow to God as bizarrely loony; no one expresses disapproval of Jasonâs explanation that keeping the vow has necessitated a lot of masturbation; no one expresses disapproval of the promiscuity Sabrina enjoyed before making the vow or that of her best friend, Blythe (Meagan Goode), who continues to have sex as she pleases; and, finally, no one expresses disapproval of Sabrinaâs biological motherâs having had an affair when she was sixteen years old, only of her having given up the baby to her sister and then later trying to be recognized as the girlâs real mother. Sebastianâs attempts to seduce Shonda, who is easily old enough to be his mother, are treated jocularly by all, although some, including Shonda, jokingly claim that if she responded to his advances it could be considered statutory rape. When he finally succeeds in getting her to make out with him and acquires her email address so that they can arrange to consummate their relationship, everyone seems amused but approving. Consequently, the filmâs message about abstinence is that this can be a good choice for mature people (the groom says he respects the bride because of her adherence to her promise to God), but there is no reason to impose it on the young. Much more important than when one has sex and with how many partners is the maintenance of family values, here defined insistently as acceptance of all family members no matter what their histories or current social status.
The film has two emotional climaxes. The first comes when Sabrinaâs parents invite Geneva, her biological mother, to join hands with them as all three stand to proudly give the bride away. The second comes when Sabrina insists on what she had rejected before as dĂ©classĂ©, jumping the broom with her new spouse. Forgiveness is not necessary to acceptance, because no one is seen as more of a sinner than anyone else. But understanding is. Jasonâs mother and his extended family dislike Sabrinaâs family because of their wealth and privilege, seeing them as pretentious and false (speaking like whites), while the members of Sabrinaâs family are mostly horrified by the vulgarity of Jasonâs working-class family. They must all learn that their race and its traditions, including belief in God, are what unites them. Legal marriage is important to sex because it extends the family, creating larger units of relationship and acceptance. That Sabrina will never know her biological father (a married Frenchman who, because Sabrina has very light skin, presumably was white) is somewhat sad. But the revelation of her true parentage is ultimately joyous because she has gained new relatives to love.
Choice is also strongly emphasized, both explicitly, in Sabrinaâs decision to become abstinent until marriage, and implicitly, although in keeping with American films generally, religious or secular, in that abortion is not mentioned as an option for pregnancies outside marriage. The groom, Jason, chooses first to identify with a higher social class than his education and success allows him to enter, then to solidify that new identity by marrying far above his original station, and finally to move to China with his new bride because of the career opportunity she has there. Sabrina chooses not only how to manage her sex life but also how to prioritize her career so that Jason must move with her or lose her. And most importantly to the plot, she chooses whom she will recognize as family, deciding in favor of a generous (and in Deleuzian terms, minoritarian) inclusivity.
This vision resonates with the depictions of the relation of female sexuality to family life depicted in the magnificent climax of Julie Dashâs influential feminist film, Daughters of the Dust (1991), which depicts the struggle of the Peazants to preserve their history and traditions on the eve of their diasporic journey from the Sea Islands. As Toni Cade Bambara observes, the film presents âfamily as a liberated zone, women as a source of value,â as is exemplified when the matriarch insists that they all embrace Yellow Mary, a formerly prostituted lesbian, and Eula, a pregnant rape victim, as no different or less morally upright than the rest of them (121). As J. Jack Halberstam shows, although it is light entertainment, Jumping the Broom, like Daughters of the Dust, focuses on the survival of the black family and by extension the black community, a focus that is typical not only of âblack wedding films,â but of African American cinema generally (Gaga Feminism 124). Quite radically, the way the family expands to embrace people whose sexual histories and even current practices the dominant white culture deems immoral is offered as being in accord with Christian values.
The theme of intergenerational sex, represented by Sebastianâs seduction of Shonda and by Genevaâs love affair at sixteen with an older man, and the theme of young peopleâs premarital sex with youthful peers, represented by Sabrinaâs behavior before making her vow and by Blythe, who does not choose celibacy (but is still given a true love of her own), are shown to create occasions for indulgent understanding. Young people have strong sex drives, and adults must accept that the young will act on these feelings, sometimes in ways that are inconvenient to the maintenance of strict social standards, such as containing procreation within marriage. The tension between young sexuality and respectability is treated as being primarily funny, as is dramatized when Shonda fends off and then gives in to Sebastianâs insistent advances, laughing merrily all the while.
This comedic treatment of a young personâs successful attempt to alleviate horniness is much different from the near hysterical view of youthful sexuality offered in most films made about white people for predominantly white (or unmarked) audiences. Robin Bernstein gives a plausible explanation for this phenomenon in Racial Innocence: Performing American Childhood from Slavery to Civil Rights. She argues that while âby the mid-nineteenth century, sentimental culture had woven childhood and innocence together wholly . . . this innocence was raced whiteâ (4). White children were seen as delicately vulnerable not only to sexual corruption but also to the physical dangers it might bring, yet black children were understood to be impervious to pain and thus immune to dangers of sexual corruption. Cultural scripts enacted through all sorts of performances, from minstrel shows to childrenâs play with dolls, reinforced the âlibel that African American juveniles were invulnerableâ and thus in no need of protection from sexuality, which was otherwise considered a deathly threat (42). Therefore anxiety about youthful sex has come down to us as a specifically white concern. This disagreeable scripting appears as a subtext in many films about white American girlsâ initiations into sexuality, as will become evident through comparison of two films that represent opposed views of girlsâ first sexual experiences: Ă ma soeur! and Thirteen.
Since the first wave of feminism as a political movement in the nineteenth century, womenâs narratives of girlsâ sexual initiation have been taken increasingly seriously as authoritative sources for creating generalized concepts of female sexuality. While such narratives almost always receive respectful attention from feminist critics as correctives to traditional, masculinist perspectives on female sexuality, they are also usually stripped of their particularity and incorporated into feminist theories as evidence for some posited areas of commonality among women. The construction of an agreed-upon account of female sexual development is necessary to psychoanalytic theory, which provides our primary approach to understanding sexuality, because the emphasis on the unconscious in the putative science of the mind calls into question the accuracy of individual womenâs memories of our own sexual awakening, which might otherwise challenge the idea that because of our gender we share a basic sexuality. However, construction of a consensus is also necessary to womenâs collective contestation of the misogynistic view of female sexuality that is central to...