The Gift of Therapy
eBook - ePub

The Gift of Therapy

An Open Letter to a New Generation of Therapists and Their Patients

  1. 320 pages
  2. English
  3. ePUB (mobile friendly)
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eBook - ePub

The Gift of Therapy

An Open Letter to a New Generation of Therapists and Their Patients

About this book

Acclaimed author and renowned psychiatrist Irvin D. Yalom distills thirty-five years of psychotherapy wisdom into one brilliant volume.

The culmination of master psychiatrist Dr. Irvin D. Yalom’s more than thirty-five years in clinical practice, Gift of Therapy, The EPB is a remarkable and essential guidebook that illustrates through real case studies how patients and therapists alike can get the most out of the therapeutic process. This classic book on the therapist-patient relationship, from the bestselling author of Love’s Executioner, shares his uniquely fresh approach and the valuable insights he has gained—presented as eighty-five personal and provocative “tips for beginner therapists,” including:

•Let the patient matter to you

•Acknowledge your errors

•Create a new therapy for each patient

•Do home visits

•(Almost) never make decisions for the patient

•Freud was not always wrong

A book aimed at enriching the therapeutic process for a new generation of patients and counselors, Yalom’s Gift of Therapy, The EPB is an entertaining, informative, and insightful work of psychology and existential psychotherapy for anyone with an interest in the subject.

Information

Year
2013
Print ISBN
9780061719615
eBook ISBN
9780062297266

Table of contents

  1. Cover
  2. Title Page
  3. Dedication
  4. Contents
  5. Introduction
  6. Acknowledgments
  7. Chapter 1 - Remove the Obstacles to Growth
  8. Chapter 2 - Avoid Diagnosis (Except for Insurance Companies)
  9. Chapter 3 - Therapist and Patient as ā€œFellow Travelersā€
  10. Chapter 4 - Engage the Patient
  11. Chapter 5 - Be Supportive
  12. Chapter 6 - Empathy: Looking Out the Patient’s Window
  13. Chapter 7 - Teach Empathy
  14. Chapter 8 - Let the Patient Matter to You
  15. Chapter 9 - Acknowledge Your Errors
  16. Chapter 10 - Create a New Therapy for Each Patient
  17. Chapter 11 - The Therapeutic Act, Not the Therapeutic Word
  18. Chapter 12 - Engage in Personal Therapy
  19. Chapter 13 - The Therapist Has Many Patients; The Patient, One Therapist
  20. Chapter 14 - The Here-and-Now—Use It, Use It, Use It
  21. Chapter 15 - Why Use the Here-and-Now?
  22. Chapter 16 - Using the Here-and-Now—Grow Rabbit Ears
  23. Chapter 17 - Search for Here-and-Now Equivalents
  24. Chapter 18 - Working Through Issues in the Here-and-Now
  25. Chapter 19 - The Here-and-Now Energizes Therapy
  26. Chapter 20 - Use Your Own Feelings as Data
  27. Chapter 21 - Frame Here-and-Now Comments Carefully
  28. Chapter 22 - All Is Grist for the Here-and-Now Mill
  29. Chapter 23 - Check into the Here-and-Now Each Hour
  30. Chapter 24 - What Lies Have You Told Me?
  31. Chapter 25 - Blank Screen? Forget It! Be Real
  32. Chapter 26 - Three Kinds of Therapist Self-Disclosure
  33. Chapter 27 - The Mechanism of Therapy—Be Transparent
  34. Chapter 28 - Revealing Here-and-Now Feelings—Use Discretion
  35. Chapter 29 - Revealing the Therapist’s Personal Life—Use Caution
  36. Chapter 30 - Revealing Your Personal Life—Caveats
  37. Chapter 31 - Therapist Transparency and Universality
  38. Chapter 32 - Patients Will Resist Your Disclosure
  39. Chapter 33 - Avoid the Crooked Cure
  40. Chapter 34 - On Taking Patients Further Than You Have Gone
  41. Chapter 35 - On Being Helped by Your Patient
  42. Chapter 36 - Encourage Patient Self-Disclosure
  43. Chapter 37 - Feedback in Psychotherapy
  44. Chapter 38 - Provide Feedback Effectively and Gently
  45. Chapter 39 - Increase Receptiveness to Feedback by Using ā€œParts,ā€
  46. Chapter 40 - Feedback: Strike When the Iron Is Cold
  47. Chapter 41 - Talk About Death
  48. Chapter 42 - Death and Life Enhancement
  49. Chapter 43 - How to Talk About Death
  50. Chapter 44 - Talk About Life Meaning
  51. Chapter 45 - Freedom
  52. Chapter 46 - Helping Patients Assume Responsibility
  53. Chapter 47 - Never (Almost Never) Make Decisions for the Patient
  54. Chapter 48 - Decisions: A Via Regia into Existential Bedrock
  55. Chapter 49 - Focus on Resistance to Decision
  56. Chapter 50 - Facilitating Awareness by Advice Giving
  57. Chapter 51 - Facilitating Decisions—Other Devices
  58. Chapter 52 - Conduct Therapy as a Continuous Session
  59. Chapter 53 - Take Notes of Each Session
  60. Chapter 54 - Encourage Self-Monitoring
  61. Chapter 55 - When Your Patient Weeps
  62. Chapter 56 - Give Yourself Time Between Patients
  63. Chapter 57 - Express Your Dilemmas Openly
  64. Chapter 58 - Do Home Visits
  65. Chapter 59 - Don’t Take Explanation Too Seriously
  66. Chapter 60 - Therapy-Accelerating Devices
  67. Chapter 61 - Therapy as a Dress Rehearsal for Life
  68. Chapter 62 - Use the Initial Complaint as Leverage
  69. Chapter 63 - Don’t Be Afraid of Touching Your Patient
  70. Chapter 64 - Never Be Sexual with Patients
  71. Chapter 65 - Look for Anniversary and Life-Stage Issues
  72. Chapter 66 - Never Ignore ā€œTherapy Anxiety,ā€
  73. Chapter 67 - Doctor, Take Away My Anxiety
  74. Chapter 68 - On Being Love’s Executioner
  75. Chapter 69 - Taking a History
  76. Chapter 70 - A History of the Patient’s Daily Schedule
  77. Chapter 71 - How Is the Patient’s Life Peopled?
  78. Chapter 72 - Interview the Significant Other
  79. Chapter 73 - Explore Previous Therapy
  80. Chapter 74 - Sharing the Shade of the Shadow
  81. Chapter 75 - Freud Was Not Always Wrong
  82. Chapter 76 - CBT Is Not What It’s Cracked Up to Be … Or, Don’t Be Afraid of the EVT Bogeyman
  83. Chapter 77 - Dreams—Use Them, Use Them, Use Them
  84. Chapter 78 - Full Interpretation of a Dream? Forget It!
  85. Chapter 79 - Use Dreams Pragmatically: Pillage and Loot
  86. Chapter 80 - Master Some Dream Navigational Skills
  87. Chapter 81 - Learn About the Patient’s Life from Dreams
  88. Chapter 82 - Pay Attention to the First Dream
  89. Chapter 83 - Attend Carefully to Dreams About the Therapist
  90. Chapter 84 - Beware the Occupational Hazards
  91. Chapter 85 - Cherish the Occupational Privileges
  92. Notes
  93. P. S - Insights, Interviews & More …*
  94. Other Works by Irvin D. Yalom, M.D.
  95. Copyright
  96. About the Publisher

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