“A swift and absorbing read…may change your mind and the national conversation.” —Psychology Today
A funny, tough-minded case for being and having an only child, debunking the myths about only children and taking glory in the pleasures of singletons.
Journalist Lauren Sandler is an only child and the mother of one. After investigating what only children are really like and whether stopping at one child is an answer to reconciling motherhood and modernity, she learned a lot about herself—and a lot about our culture’s assumptions. In this heartfelt work, Sandler legitimizes a vital discussion about the larger societal costs of having more than one.
Between the recession, the stresses of modern life, and the ecological dangers ahead, there are increasing pressures on parents to think seriously about singletons. Sandler considers the unique ways that singletons thrive, and why so many of their families are happier. One and Only examines these ideas, including what the rise of the single-child family means for our economies, our environment, and our freedom, leaving the reader “informed and sympathetic” (Nora Krug, award-winning author of Belonging).
Through this journey, “Sandler delves deeply, thoughtfully, and often humorously into history, culture, politics, religion, race, economics, and of course, scientific research” ( Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone). Sandler has quite possibly cracked the code of happiness, demonstrating that having just one may be the way to resolve our countless struggles with adulthood in the modern age.

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One and Only
The Freedom of Having an Only Child, and the Joy of Being One
- 224 pages
- English
- ePUB (mobile friendly)
- Available on iOS & Android
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Table of contents
- Cover
- Dedication
- Introduction: Itâs Not What You Think
- One: The Unteachable Eagle
- Two: Rhymes With Only
- Three: Good For Nothing
- Four: Standing Out From the Swells
- Five: Where Someone Loves You Best of All
- Six: Save Yourself
- Seven: Home Economics
- Eight: The Fruitful Mandate
- Nine: Tea Leaves
- Conclusion: Against Folly
- Notes
- Acknowledgments
- About Lauren Sandler
- Copyright
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