A Soldier's Promise

The Heroic True Story of an American Soldier and an Iraqi Boy

First Sgt. Daniel Hendrex, Wes Smith

• Publisher: Gallery Books
• Year: 2006
• eBook ISBN: 9781416934998
• Topic: History
• Subtopic: Military Biographies
• Index: History

An uplifting story of unlikely friendship and hope during the Iraq War. After the overthrow of Saddam Hussein, First Sergeant Daniel Hendrex was dispatched along with his unit, Dragon Company, to Husaybah, a small town bordering Syria in the Sunni-dominated Al Anbar Province in Iraq. Their mission was to plug the bottleneck at the border checkpoint, where foreign fighters and weapons smugglers were filtering through daily to join the increasingly menacing insurgency growing rapidly in the region. It was at this checkpoint, amid relentless attacks, that Daniel and his men found the most effective ally of the war effort in the most unlikely of sources.In December 2003 a skinny Iraqi kid about fourteen years old approached one of the soldiers at the border and said simply, "Arrest me." Jamil, as he was called, claimed to have valuable information about the insurgency, but First Sergeant Hendrex was skeptical—especially when the boy announced that the man he wanted to turn in was his own father. The story that unfolds is one of heartbreaking tragedy, remarkable courage, and unprecedented resiliency, as this child of the insurgency takes it upon himself to fight back with the help of the US Army...and loses everything in the process—his country, his home, and his family.But through the power of his own conviction and his finely honed survival skills, Jamil (who was quickly nicknamed Steve-O by the soldiers of Dragon Company) sought refuge with the US military in exchange for information. He risked everything he knew for a chance at freedom—a choice few men, let alone children, have to make in their lifetimes. And after Steve-O helped save countless lives, First Sergeant Hendrex made it his personal mission to repay his debt and get the boy to safety. A Soldier's Promise is an incredible story of sacrifice and courage by an Iraqi boy and the US soldiers who protected him from certain death by bringing him to the United States. It's an astonishing tale of two countries and two very different kinds of people joining together against terror and tyranny, and of the young man who, against all odds, gave Dragon Company what they desperately needed—hope.

1

KIA on the Front Page

It was two a.m. We were at the city’s edge. It had taken us twenty-four hours just to reach this point. We hadn’t had a shower in more than a week. We hadn’t slept in almost forty-eight hours. Inside the tight confines of the tank’s turret, we were soaked with sweat. The stench of cordite, hydraulic fluid, oil, and fuel filled our nostrils and permeated our uniforms. The turbine engine in our M1A2 Abrams armored tank idled in a low rumble as Sergeant Wilkening, the gunner, completed final checks and preparations to fire. The sergeant, a live wire from Seattle who was always ready for a fight, scanned the foliage and outlying buildings for any threatening activity through the gunner’s thermal imaging system. I keyed my CVC, a helmet with built-in communications, and informed Lieutenant Wilkins, my new platoon leader, of my location and my intentions.

The moon offered zero illumination, but the distant flashes provided glimpses of what was to come. The infantry had breeched the city’s defenses. They were trying to set a stronghold so they could then begin the tedious and dangerous task of driving out the enemy, building by building, room by room, step by step. Our mission was to obliterate any heavy resistance. Radio communication in urban environments was intermittent at best. The buildings, tight alleyways, and dead space played havoc with the technology. The lack of radio contact was maddening as we prepared to move our seventy-ton vehicle into the enemy’s heavily fortified position amid sporadic gunfire, thundering explosions, and a thick fog of battlefield smoke.

“White One, this is White Four. We have cleared the last minefield, and we are moving in from the north. White Three, follow me.”

We were the first heavy armor to enter the city, and we drew a lot of attention. Machine-gun and small-arms fire flashed from surrounding buildings and echoed in the alleyways. It was deafening. Pure chaos. Muzzle flashes seemed to come from every window, nook, and cranny. Both soldiers and insurgents darted in and out of the shadows. Civilians screamed for help.

Staff Sergeant Smith, my lanky tank commander, who was always coolheaded whether he was lining up an approach shot on the fairway or bearing down on an enemy stronghold in battle, positioned his tank, White Three, in the southern sector. I pushed our tank eastward. We were armed with the most lethal direct fire weapon system in the U.S. Army’s arsenal, yet our hands were tied because we had no radio contact with our infantry. Sgt. Wilkening yelled, “I have hot spots everywhere, but I can’t tell who is who!”

Then, suddenly, Wilkening found his mark: “Friendly soldiers, three o’clock, approximately fifty meters.”

He had identified our troops through his thermal sights because their Kevlar helmets have a distinct heat signature. I jumped from the tank and signaled to them. A soldier sprinted over and gave me the most accurate situation report I’d heard all night. His company had not yet established a stronghold. They were taking heavy casualties. The three buildings to our north were still in the hands of the insurgents, who were using them as cover to fire on our troops on the south side of the road.

I relayed that we would neutralize the insurgents in those buildings so that the infantry could continue their mission. He sent word to the other infantry platoons and told them to keep out of the targeted buildings. He thanked us for the support before disappearing into the darkness. I had to smile at his display of gratitude. In barrooms and chow halls, armored soldiers and infantrymen argue constantly over which of their branches is best. But when the shit hits the fan, the boys in boots do love to see a friendly tank.

We moved into a blocking position and immediately took heavy fire. It was time to go to work.

“Gunner COAX troops, identified! Fire!”

But we were both the hunter and the hunted in this fight. No sooner had we knocked out one nest of insurgents than I saw a flash and a distinctive puff of smoke near a third-story window. A rocket-propelled grenade was coming right at us. Luckily, it missed, but behind it came a flurry of fire climaxing in a large explosion that rattled our tank. The yellow light on our MILES (Multiple Integrated Laser Engagement System) immediately began blinking and the audio system began blaring in our ears as an eerie female voice intoned, “Catastrophic kill. Catastrophic kill.”

“You’re done!” yelled the observer controller, the head referee for this mock battle. “An insurgent threw a satchel charge on your front slope and blew you up. Everyone is dead!”

Training or not, I hated to lose, especially when it was bullshit. I emphatically tried to make a case that our crew would have survived that sort of attack on a real battlefield. An explosion seeks the path of least resistance, so it is doubtful that there would have been enough downward force to do lethal damage to our heavily armored tank or the crew inside. But this wasn’t the NFL, and my argument, peppered with too many expletives for the ref’s taste, sealed our fate. There were no play reviews in war games. Game over. The MOUT (Military Operations in Urban Terrain) site named Shuttgart-Gordon at the Joint Readiness Training Center in Fort Polk, Louisiana, would remain in the hands of the “enemy.”

 

The sun was breaking over the horizon and the urban warfare training exercise was wrapping up when Lieutenant Colonel Kievenaar, my squadron commander, walked over to me. He had watched the entire battle from the water tower, which was the command center where footage from hundreds of cameras throughout this thirty-five-million-dollar mock city was fed and recorded for postbattle reviews. Lt. Col. Kievenaar and I had been stationed together several times over the course of my career, and as I shared my concerns and discussed the shortcomings of the exercise, I was approached by a civilian in a baseball cap. He had a pen and notepad in hand and was shadowed by a photographer.

“Are you the tank commander of that vehicle over there? I’d like to interview you,” the reporter said.

I was still fuming and not at all thrilled to be discussing the demise of my tank and my crew. But media training is often part of such exercises. Each battle is videotaped and critiqued, and they’ll sometimes ask us to do mock interviews so we get used to dealing with embedded news media. I answered all of his questions, playing along with the game and not really paying attention. Then, as we wrapped it up, I asked him what unit he was with. He squinted, looked at me impatiently, and said, “I am a reporter with USA Today.”

“Yeah, yeah, I know. I can see the sticker on your cameraman. But you can break character now. Is this going to be used in the after-action review for commanders?”

Confused, he pulled out his wallet and handed me his business card. “Look, I don’t know how to tell you this any other way. I am from USA Today. We’re doing a story on this exercise. You are going to be on the front page of my newspaper tomorrow.”

And that is how I came to die along with my tank crew on page one of the newspaper with the largest circulation in the nation even before Operation Iraqi Freedom had begun. It was a mock death in a mock battle in a mock city—and thanks to USA Today, I was mocked plenty about it when the story appeared on October 31, 2002. I laughed off the ribbing, jokes, and e-mails that seemed to come from every soldier I’d ever walked by in my twelve-year military career. But I also used the war game defeat as a wake-up call to ratchet up my level of preparation for what would prove to be the most challenging deployment of my life.

2

A Child of War

Summer 2000

A convoy of four white Mercedes sedans came cruising out of the desert, trailing dust from Baghdad, which lay two hundred miles to the west. They’d followed the greenway created by the Euphrates River as it snaked across Iraq through the Al Anbar Province to the Syrian border. The slender, dark-haired boy from Husaybah watched from a hilltop as his father, a captain in the Republican Guard, saluted the sleek vehicles. They seemed to glow like starships in the brilliant sunlight.

When the men in Iraqi army uniforms stepped from the cars, it was difficult at first for the boy, Jamil, to determine which one was Saddam Hussein. So many of them were of the same build and sported similar facial hair. But then the other men stepped back to let their leader come forward to inspect the troops. Jamil saw his father’s body stiffen as the powerful leader of their country approached. Saddam did not appear to single his father out. Instead, he appeared to be addressing the higher-ranking soldiers nearby.

Yet, on their way home that night, his father replayed the scene as one in which he and Saddam had conducted intimate conversations on important matters. Jamil reflected on the disparity between the bond that his father claimed to have with Saddam Hussein and what he had seen take place that day. He had long suspected that his father exaggerated both his ties to the president and his own standing in the Baath Party. Even at that point, he was beginning to suspect that his bullying father had little true influence beyond his men, their town, or the reach of his fists.

 

Husaybah lies uneasily on Iraq’s western border with Syria. The outpost of 100,000 inhabitants has a sordid and violent tradition as a lawless den of smugglers and prostitutes, ruled through the centuries by contentious tribes. Two Sunni Muslim tribes—the Mahalowis and the Salmanis—control cross-border trade at the sprawling marketplace inside the town’s landmark arched gates. Their bitter rivalry and the bloody infighting kept even Saddam Hussein from meddling much in the affairs of the cutthroats who rule the Sunni stronghold.

Husaybah was the birthplace and home of ten-year-old Jamil, the oldest of six siblings, including two sisters (Inaya and Nada) and three brothers (Imad, Kadar, and Hassan). Their mother, Tahira, doted on the children and did her best to serve as a buffer between them and their father, Nassir. As the eldest, Jamil was positioned as the favored child, yet he was most often the target of his father’s anger. In his role as a captain in the Republican Guard, the Iraqi armed forces, Nassir had grown hardened and unforgiving through decades of relentless war, first with Iran and later with Kuwait and the American-led coalition that came to its aid and drove the Iraqi forces out.

Nassir was a soldier in the army of a dictator who posed as a benevolent father while torturing and preying upon his own people. The military itself was largely ruled by violence and intimidation that seeped into the daily lives of all Iraqis. Jamil bore the scars of that brutish existence at an early age. Home from battle, his father once accused him of stealing a coin from his sack purse. Jamil, then eight years old, pleaded his innocence, but only after his father held a spoon over a flame and pressed it into the back of the boy’s hand. Jamil screamed and called for his mother, but she dared not help. It was not allowed. Her interference would only have brought more suffering down upon them.

A few months later, Jamil neglected to close the gate on a sheep pen shared by several families, and his own uncle knocked him to the ground and kicked him in the head, crushing a muscle and causing one of his eyes to cross. Tahira took her son to the Husaybah hospital, where a visiting Japanese surgeon from an international medical volunteer group repaired the damaged muscle in a long and painful procedure. While still healing, Jamil drew his father’s wrath once again. Nassir lashed out, knocking the sutures loose and undoing the surgeon’s work. Such brutal treatment left Tahira fearful for all of her children, but especially for Jamil.

After the terrorist attacks on the United States on September 11, 2001, Nassir grew more volatile than ever. The Republican Guard was put on alert for an American invasion. Saddam was defiant, but the rank-and-file soldiers had learned in Kuwait that they were ill equipped to fight more modern armies. As the threat of invasion grew, Nassir’s dark moods intensified.

His wife and children did their best to protect one another while staying out of his reach. They were a close-knit group of strong-willed characters. Inaya was as tall as Jamil and equally spirited. He loved playing pranks on her, but she was no pushover. One day, as Inaya prepared to go to school, she discovered that Jamil had emptied her schoolbag and claimed it as his own. When he refused to give it back, she chased him around the house, whacking him on the back of the head with his own sandal until he gave it up.

Jamil’s younger brothers shared his knack for pranks and provocations. Imad, who had made a study of his father’s extensive vocabulary of curse words, was notorious for tampering with Jamil’s homemade pigeon roost. Jamil kept the homing pigeons in a pen he’d built from scavenged chicken wire and wood. Imad would raid the roost, trying to play with the birds but often setting some free in the process. Each time, Jamil first chased down the birds and then hunted his brother, who would fly around the house squawking and cursing fluently, provoking laughter from his pursuer and the rest of the family.

Unlike many victims of abuse, Jamil was not inclined to anger or violence himself. He’d developed a natural charm as a survival instinct, but it offered little defense against a father who seemed to resent the boy’s innocent existence. Nassir pulled Jamil out of school in the third grade and forced him to work to help support the family. He was expected to buy his own food and clothing, which he paid for with earnings from a variety of jobs. He made bricks at a factory that belonged to one of his uncles, worked in a restaurant with another uncle, washed cars, and did rudimentary mechanical jobs, like fixing brakes and tires. In the open desert, he and his friends also hunted and picked chi-nah (mushrooms), which they sold to local markets for tidy sums. The boy’s skill at earning money became one of the rare things that his father praised him for, as long as he turned the earnings over immediately.

Yet, Jamil’s self-sufficiency at such a young age also led his father to expect more of him. Nassir began to treat him as one of his soldiers. He rode Jamil constantly, telling him that his days as a boy playing in the streets were about to end. When the Americans came, it would be time to put down his toys and fight as a man. He, too, would be a soldier in Saddam’s army.

This confused Jamil. He was too young to be a soldier. How could he possibly fight men twice his size without getting wounded or killed?

His father seemed to want to treat him like a soldier and a man, but he still bullied him like a child. Somehow, the small cruelties Jamil suffered day to day hurt as much as the physical wounds. Fishing was the one thing he and his father could usually do together without conflict. They made a good team—Nassir was skilled at tossing the weighted net but could not swim, and Jamil, a natural swimmer, would retrieve the catch and free the net from any snares in the water. One day, Jamil tried his hand at tossing the net and then swam out and found he’d snared the biggest fish either of them had ever caught. It was nearly half Jamil’s own length.

His father said nothing and did little to help the boy as he brought the hefty catch to the riverbank.

“You keep fishing. I’ll take this home and have your mother cook it for us,” said Nassir.

Jamil swelled with pride, knowing that he had provided a meal for the whole family, and he was eager to share in it. His mother was an excellent cook. In fact, she’d taught Jamil many of her culinary methods and recipes during Nassir’s extended military absences. He was looking forward to watching her prepare the best catch he’d ever made, but when he got home, he found his father and several of his friends seated at the table, devouring his prize fish.

“Your father caught a very big fish,” one of the friends grunted while filling his plate with another helping.

Nassir just smiled as Jamil looked to his mother, a wave of indignation rising inside him. She quickly herded him into another room.

“I caught that fish!” he whispered to her.

“I know, but don’t say any more,” she said. “You don’t want to make your father angry.”

3

A Delayed Entry into War

Shortly after September 11, 2001, I was sure the Pentagon would be unleashing the heavy armor of the Third Armored Cavalry Regiment and that we’d join the push into Afghanistan in pursuit of Al Qaeda and its leader, Osama bin Laden, immediately. But instead, a few weeks after the terrorist attacks, we were sent to Tooele, Utah, to set up the defenses at the military’s chemical depot there as part of Homeland Security’s Operation Noble Eagle. We spent nearly three months there before returning to Fort Carson, outside Colorado Springs, where we began training for the next phase of the war.

There was no doubt that the United States would be going back to Iraq to put Saddam Hussein out of business once and for all. It was never a matter of “if” we would invade, just a question of “when.” We were the only heavy-armored regiment in the army, and we anticipated leading the charge across the desert when General Tommy Franks gave the command. That seemed to be the plan when we were sent for readiness training at Fort Polk in the fall of 2002. But we were still there in January when President Bush made his intentions clear in his State of the Union Address, saying, “A brutal dictator, with a history of reckless aggression, with ties to terrorism, with great potential wealth, will not be permitted to dominate a vital region and threaten the United States.”

Our commander in chief then spoke directly to all of us in the armed forces: “Many of ...

Table of contents

• Cover
• Title Page
• Copyright
• Dedication
• Contents
• Preface
• 1 KIA on the Front Page
• 2 A Child of War
• 3 A Delayed Entry into War
• 4 Son of the Insurgency
• 5 Death Before Dismount
• 6 Forced to Fight
• 7 Club Paradise Lost
• 8 Coins for Fighting
• 9 Baghdad and Beyond
• 10 Jamil and the Da Baba
• 11 Through the Arches of Husaybah
• 12 The Archangels of Husaybah
• 13 Escape Plans
• 14 Border Catch
• 15 Crossing the Line
• 16 In Harm’s Way
• 17 A Boy Among Men
• 18 Fingers and Toes
• 19 A Soldier Left Behind
• 20 Unfinished Business
• 21 A New Mission
• 22 A Promise Kept
• 23 Danger in the Desert
• 24 A New Life
• Afterword
• Afterword by Steve-O
• Acknowledgments
• Fallen Heroes of the Third Armored Cavalry Regiment
• Photographs