Connecting to the Gospel

Texts, Sermons, Commentaries

White

• Publisher: Wipf and Stock
• Year: 2010
• eBook ISBN: 9781498272100
• Topic: Theology & Religion
• Subtopic: Religion

How can we connect the Gospels--the fundamental texts of Christian faith--to our own experience of inner and outer life? This is the question that animates Connecting to the Gospel. In it James Boyd White presents a series of Gospel passages, together with the sermons he gave on these passages as a lay preacher in the Episcopal Church, with brief commentaries and questions on each as well. The whole is designed as an aid to thought and reflection about the issues raised by the Gospel passages, as they relate both to our own larger culture and to our internal religious experiences. The texts are old texts, from the past. What relation do they have, can they have, with life in the twenty-first century?One aim of the book is to establish a set of questions, both about the Gospels and about our own lives, which the reader is invited to pursue on his or her own. It can be used both by individuals and groups engaged in study and exploration.

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“Love One Another as I Have Loved You”

Our first Gospel text, immediately below, seems at first to be an easy and comfortable one, even for someone who is full of doubt and uncertainty as to his or her own beliefs, for in it Jesus simply commands his disciples to love one another—surely an ideal that most of us share.

But is this text more difficult and challenging than that? How are we to understand what Jesus is really saying here, and how are we to respond to it?

The Gospel of John 15:9–17

“As the Father has loved me, so I have loved you; abide in my love. If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and abide in his love. I have said these things to you that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be complete.

“This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. You are my friends if you do what I command you. I do not call you servants any longer because the servant does not know what the master is doing; but I have called you friends, because I have made known to you everything I have learned from my Father. You did not choose me, but I chose you. And I appointed you to go and bear fruit, fruit that will last, so that the Father will give you whatever you ask him in my name. I am giving you these commands so that you may love one another.”

St. Clare’s Church, May 5, 1991

May the words of my mouth and the meditations of my heart be always acceptable in thy sight, O Lord, my strength and my redeemer.

The passage we have just read contains one of the most important and beautiful of all the utterances of Jesus: “This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.” This is his command to his disciples and to us. In a sense it is the center of his teaching as the Gospel of John presents it.

For me this is a comfortable passage, and I imagine the same may be true for you as well. It is echoed in the famous passage from John’s first letter: “Beloved, let us love one another, because love is from God; everyone who loves is born of God and knows God” (1 John 4:7).

The idea that God is love, that we are to love one another as he loves us, is a reassuring and familiar one. We can connect this idea of God with the love we experience in our homes, among our friends, and in our church—the actual love we bear for others, and the better love we aspire to. We may not be quite so sure about other images of God in the Old Testament and the New, but the idea that God is love seems deeply right and deeply comfortable.

God is love. How right and true.

But perhaps this is too easy, too comfortable. Is this all there is to it? The more we say “God is Love” the more it sounds like a Hallmark card.

One place to start might be the word love itself. What does Jesus mean by it? Of what kind of love is he speaking?

“As the Father has loved me, so I have loved you.” This sounds wonderful: to be loved as the Father loves the Son. But how did the Father in fact love Jesus? He sent him to live among us and to die a hideous and shameful death as a criminal. Is that how Jesus loves us? Is this how we are to love one another? To send each other to death?

“This is my commandment, that you should love one another as I have loved you.” Again this sounds wonderful at first, but then we remember how Jesus in fact loved us: he chose freely to die for us. Is this the kind of love we are to have for each other? The implication that this is what Jesus means is made explicit when he tells us, “No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.”

It is clear that the kind of love of which Jesus speaks is not love as we normally use the term: not love as good will, or affection, or mutual support, or even mutual blessing. It is not the kind of love most of us know.

It is love as the willing acceptance of suffering and death for another. It is love as sacrifice.

So Jesus’ command turns out not to be comfortable at all, but deeply threatening. It calls for a kind of love of which none of us is fully capable. Jesus calls upon us not merely to love one another—that in some sense we surely do—but to love one another as he loves us, and that we surely do not.

Jesus makes things still worse when he adds: “If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love.” This suggests the obvious question: “And if not?” There is a dreadful unstated threat there, as Jesus has just made plain in an earlier part of his speech: “Whoever does not abide in me is thrown away like a branch and withers; such branches are gathered, thrown into the fire, and burned” (John 15:6).

All this suggests a far more serious and troubling view of what “love” means in Jesus’ commandment than we originally thought. The kind of love we are to have for one another is the love that enables us to die for each other or, perhaps worse, to send each other to die for the sake of others. And if we fail in this superhuman task, we are to be thrown into the fire and burned.

It turns out that this passage is not a confirmation of what we already do and are, not an easy assurance of support, but a call to an utterly radical and impossible change: to a kind of love that involves a transformation of all that we are, to a giving of the self in sacrifice. Of this kind of love I know that I at least am not capable. I think very few people are.

It may help us see what Jesus is really asking here if we think about what it would mean if we were in fact to love one another in the dangerous way that he commands, if we were, in some real sense, to lay down our lives for our friends and neighbors. I think it would produce something unimaginable: a revolution in feeling and conduct and thought that would change everything.

Suppose we really did regard every child born in Detroit, or Bangkok, or Darfur, as being wholly as valuable, as precious, as our own children—as equally deserving of, and entitled to, all the support and nourishment necessary for their full development. What would that mean? Or if we thought of every aged person, alone in a hospital or hospice, or house or apartment or hut, of whatever race or nation or people they might be, as being as valuable as ourselves? Or if we thought of our students and patients and customers, the people on the bus or the train or in the airport—or on the street, or in prison, or sick and dying—all as members of the same human family, each equally deserving of love and joy and happiness? Not as players in a game of competition, which some win and some lose, but all as the object of ultimate concern? Jesus is telling us that we are to consider the needs of every person in the world as equal in importance to our own.

He of course is right. Every single baby born into the world rightly knows, deep in soul and body, that he or she should be loved. Every baby knows, too, what that love should consist of: not a sentimental adoration, not a merger of feeling or self, but the sense that the child is ultimately valuable, wholly precious; the conviction that nothing is more important than his or her healthy growth into maturity; and the readiness to experience deep joy in his or her presence—joy expressed in smiles and laughter and talk and play—as well as the deepest caring. Every child born into the world is born ready to receive love, and to return it—at first as an infant, but in the end, if properly loved, as a loving parent in his or her own right. And this kind of love, as every parent knows, means not only joy, but self-sacrifice.

Jesus is thus saying what we in a sense already know, what everyone already knows: that each human being is a soul, a center of value, equal in this respect to every other human being, and that every human action, or system of social relations, that reduces any person to the control of others, that treats any person as an object of force or manipulation, is unjust and evil.

If the people to whom Jesus is speaking—including us, now, today, in this room—begin to hear him and try to become what he is calling them to be, they, and we, will always be on the margin of the world, in a community apart. In a profound way the task that Jesus defines in his great commandment sets them, and us, against every system of power in world—for every system of power dehumanizes and trivializes the weak, the poor, the abandoned.

Jesus’ followers may be a tiny group, a dozen men in an upper room, but it is their duty, and the duty of each of us, to act on Jesus’ view of the world and its people, even when no one else does. This is so even if it means that we will be exposed to the hostility and destructiveness of the same forces that killed Jesus. This can be dangerous indeed: tradition tells us that each of the apostles, except John, died violently at the hands of others.

All this is wonderful but very hard. Perhaps the hardest question the passage presents is this: What are we to do about the fact that we cannot, we simply cannot, achieve this revolution in ourselves? We can...

Table of contents

• Title Page
• Foreword
• Preface
• Acknowledgments
• Introduction
• Chapter 1: “Love One Another as I Have Loved You”
• Chapter 2: Nicodemus
• Chapter 3: Lazarus and the Rich Man
• Chapter 4: Doubting Thomas
• Chapter 5: Walking on Water
• Chapter 6: The Good Samaritan
• Chapter 7: The Narrow Door
• Chapter 8: The Passion According to John
• Chapter 9: The Parable of the Sower
• Chapter 10: “Get Thee Behind Me, Satan!”
• Chapter 11: The Laborers in the Vineyard
• Chapter 12: The Transfiguration of Jesus
• Chapter 13: Saturday Time
• Chapter 14: Sending Out the Twelve
• Chapter 15: “To Whom Can We Go?”
• Chapter 16: “Prepare the Way of the Lord”
• Chapter 17: Jesus on the Beach
• Chapter 18: Sending the Seventy
• Chapter 19: “Sell Your Possessions”
• Chapter 20: The Lost Sheep, the Lost Coin
• Chapter 21: The Pharisee and the Tax Collector
• Chapter 22: The Good Shepherd
• Chapter 23: “You in Me, and I in You”
• Chapter 24: The Mustard Seed
• Chapter 25: “Who Do You Say I Am?”
• Chapter 26: “Seventy Times Seven”
• Chapter 27: Healing the Leper
• Chapter 28: The Grain of Wheat
• Chapter 29: The Resurrection of Jesus
• Table of Gospel Readings