The Winner's Code

How to Unleash the Winner Within

Gloria Moses

• Publisher: JNR Publishing
• eBook ISBN: 9781311270870
• Topic: Personal Development
• Subtopic: Personal Success

Today is the day for you to start unleashing more of the Winner within! As you read the following you will begin to rid yourself of the negative attitudes and thoughts that have dictated your bad outcomes thus far, and you will begin to see things from a new perspective and process of thought. You will give yourself the okay to move forward in your life and career and enjoy it. Read on and find out how to change your thinking, and your life for the better of your present and your future. TABLE OF CONTENTS Conversing with the Winners
"The Simon Effect"
Childhood Conditioning
Making a Solid, Determined Choice to be a Winner
Firmly decide, and firmly commit to the fact, that you are a winner.
Set and commit to a start date (Your "January 1st, so to speak).
There are 2 kinds of prison; which are you in? How do you get out?
Emotional Childhood Trauma
Self-respect in Relation to Self-Esteem
The True Root of Healthy Self-Esteem
Winning Defined
Balancing the 10 Parts of the Life Dynamic
Leisure Time & Socialization
Family Relationships
Professional/Career
Money and Finances
Present & Future Goals
Education
Contributions
Personal Thought Life
Physical Care
Spirituality
Giving Permission to Win Regularly
Accepting the Truth
Facts about Setting Missions & Goals
Always Be Specific
Why are You are Here?
Be S.M.A.R.T.E.R.
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Be Introspective
Patience is a Virtue
Always Set Personal & Professional Goals, No Matter How Small
Dream Like a Child; Plan Like a Grown-up
Look and Feel Alive!
What Have I Accomplished?
Your Personal Mission Statement
Choose to Win, and then See Yourself Winning
Mental Coaching
Reprogramming the Subconscious
The Price
Your Coach
Talk to Winners and Successes
Positive Self-Talk
Dress for Success
Read
A Winning Home Life Atmosphere
Time Alone to Meditate
Get Rid of the Rubbish
Education Breeds Results
Throw the Excuses Out the Window
Negative School Experiences
To Keep Winning, You Must Keep Learning
Now Is the Time!
Soak Up Knowledge On Your Own
What Looks Like Instant Success Really Took Years
Communication Skills
Stay Focused on Your Mission
Think First
Voice Tone & Emphasis
Listen & Learn
Body Language
Journal
Respect
Hear First
Stay Simple
Personal Life Relationships
Relationship Conflict
Winners Survive
Differences
Adjusting Your Sails
Children
Win at Work
F.A.M.E.
Think About Inspirational People
Exclude Excuses
You Are Responsible
Self-Discipline
Be Where You Are
Share Yourself
Serve
Happiness
Meaning in Life
Your Life's Mission
Be Financially Healthy
Make a Decision to Organize
Working & Dreaming
Taxes
Borrowing
Investing
Save
The Water that gives Life
The Spirit
The Body
Rest & Play
Time for rest must be taken if you want to win.
Spirituality is Not Religion
Move Your Body
The Past
Clear the Air
Giving Yourself Permission to be a Winner
Look In the Mirror
Think Like a Champ
Adversity

Chapter Education Breeds Results

Regardless of what your dream is and how badly you want to be a winner, there will come a time when you will need to gain a bit of knowledge to raise your level of effectiveness; read on:

Throw the Excuses Out the Window

You could say you don’t have the money or the time, but the fact is we live in a day and age when you can study right over the Internet from the comfort of your own home, and financial assistance is available.

Negative School Experiences

Forget the past. You are starting a new day! This means your outlook toward continuing your education is nothing but positive.

To Keep Winning, You Must Keep Learning

Times change and winners roll with the changes. You are a winner.

Now Is the Time!

Adopt this mantra because tomorrow never comes. Procrastination is a winner’s worst enemy.

Soak Up Knowledge On Your Own

Sign up for seminars and attend workshops. Read anything you can get your hands on that is going to further your mission and lead you to win. Conduct research and study your topic of interest online. Use the Internet to your advantage.

What Looks Like Instant Success Really Took Years

There is no easy way to win, at least not if you desire that you feel fulfilled and accomplished when you win. Hard work is at the very essence of a winning mindset, and working hard will accessorize your dreams perfectly.

Communication Skills

Being able to convey a point or message effectively is necessary on the road to winning in any scenario. Be prepared to hone your communication skills if you aren’t already blessed with a glib tongue.

Abide by the following rules when communicating with others:

Stay Focused on Your Mission

Use you common sense; keeping your emotions in check will further your cause faster than losing sight of the goal and control of yourself because of your feelings. Keep your eyes on the prize.

Think First

You must learn to respond with care when communicating with others. This skill is essential to your future success. There are many things to be aware of when responding, so always think things through.

Voice Tone & Emphasis

Not only must you be aware of your choice of words, but you must keep a close watch on the tone voice you are using and the words you choose to place emphasis on. You do not want the point of your statement to be misunderstood.

Listen & Learn

Thoroughly hear and digest what is being said by others, and pay close attention to their own body language and tone. These things will signify what an appropriate response would be.

Body Language

Is your body conveying anger, suspicion, or defensiveness? Are you being aggressive or passive? Does the way you are holding yourself fit the message you are trying to get across? Learn to be aware of these things and make appropriate changes as necessary.

Journal

Keep a careful record of your own goals and plans. Record the progress or setbacks you have experienced, and write down any thoughts you have that can improve things. This is a very beneficial way to keep your eyes on the prize.

Respect

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Table of contents

• Introduction
• Chapter Mental Coaching
• Chapter Education Breeds Results
• Communication Skills
• Bonus Chapters of the book:
• The Personal Dimension