The Psychology of Retirement

Coping with the Transition from Work

Derek L. Milne

• Publisher: Wiley-Blackwell
• Year: 2012
• Print ISBN: 9780470972663
• eBook ISBN: 9781118408711
• Edition: 1
• Topic: Psychology
• Subtopic: Developmental Psychology
• Index: Psychology

The Psychology of Retirement is the first self-help guide to retirement based on highly proven psychological coping strategies.

• Provides the most comprehensive and coherent account of the challenges of retirement and the associated aging process
• Represents the culmination of over 30 years of clinical, teaching and research involvement in the main issues discussed within this book
• Draws systematically on applied scientific theories, accepted professional circles, which are interpreted and communicated by an applied scientist
• A constructive emphasis establishes the best possible coping strategies and perspectives

1

The Surprises of Retirement

Retirement: is this our final act, the dimming of the light, the inescapable descent into hopeless senility? The traditional answer is an emphatic “yes,” as indicated by the dictionary definition: “To give up, to go away, to seek seclusion, recede or disappear.” But recent decades have seen a transformation in the possibilities that are ushered in by retirement, at least in Western society. Improvements in life expectancy mean that, for most of us, there will typically be 15–20 years available for quality living before we truly recede. This is reflected in a review by Baltes in the American Psychologist:

During the last decade, we have witnessed a growing success story regarding young old age. Because of medical, technical, social, economic and educational advances, the overall …life for 60- and 70-year olds has made major strides in indicators of health and psychological functioning. For this period of the third age, cultural and social forces in industrialized countries have been able to offset, for the most part and for most individuals, the weaknesses inherent in the biological life-span.1

In writing this review, Baltes credited the Roman philosopher and statesman Cicero (106–43 BCE) as being the original champion of retirement. Cicero wrote an essay on old age in his early sixties, arguing that a properly-managed retirement provided opportunities for continued personal development. Drawing on Stoicism, he particularly emphasized that the waning interest in “bodily pleasures” removed a major distraction from self-actualization: “Nothing is more directly destructive to the dignity of man than the pursuit of bodily pleasure.”2

Therefore, a new dawn beckons in our “young old age,” and a better current definition might be: To recede from working life and make a transition to a new life phase, one where new opportunities for happiness and personal development beckon. On this more optimistic definition, the challenge becomes one of ensuring that we make the most of our final major opportunity to make our life as successful as possible. The idea of making a transition between different phases of our lives (e.g. from adolescent to adult) originates from research on topics like bereavement and other kinds of trauma, though it also applies to seemingly positive changes, like retirement. There appears to be a fairly typical pattern, which starts with emotional turbulence. In the case of retirement, this might include excitement and a “honeymoon period”; in the case of trauma it is more likely to feature numbness, anger, disbelief, and denial. After three or four months there may be some change (similar in both the “positive” and traumatic situations), including confusion, a loss of confidence, and depression. However, if the transition follows a “normal” pattern of adjustment, then over the following three months or so we should see growing acceptance, more exploration of ways forward (e.g. developing a social hobby in retirement), a return of confidence and a changed, more adaptive engagement with everyday life.

The transition into retirement, however, can be surprisingly hard to define: many continue to “work” in various senses of the word, and resuming some form of paid employment after retiring from a career post is common (surveys in the US suggest that over 60 percent of retirees “un-retire” and continue in some form of paid work, then “re-retire” or “semi-retire” some time later). In this sense, experts suggest that initial retirement is not so much the end of one's working life as the beginning of a new stage of working (e.g. the “encore” career). While this used to be restricted to those whose work was necessarily time-limited thereby creating a clear financial need to start a second career (e.g. among athletes), in recent decades this has become something of the norm. In this sense, there is often no single event that delineates retirement completely satisfactorily: it is more like a process that unfolds over a period of years. Factors such as work opportunities, fluctuating finances, personal needs, stages of adjustment, caring for dependant relatives, and other emerging retirement issues all affect this new period of one's life. Experts therefore tend to define retirement as a developmental process; a transition triggered by stopping one's working life and accessing a state pension or a retirement package, but a process that is best defined by the individual and subject to the very different ways that individuals adapt to their particular circumstances and cultures. For example, I have recently ceased working full-time and have taken a retirement package, a single event that for me marked my retirement, but I continue to work for money in ways that used to be part of my job, like writing this book. My transition might be delayed or never truly happen, were I to write books for the rest of my life. Therefore, in a psychological sense I may never fully retire. This book explores whether that is a “cunning plan” or mere denial.

Although an elusive concept, retirement represents a challenge that is facing governments and a growing proportion of the population as the “baby-boomers” reach their sixties, death rates are reduced due to enhanced healthcare, life expectancy increases, and healthier living yields widespread benefits. To illustrate the point about life expectancy, scientists reviewing “anti-aging medicine” describe rapid progress in modifying the aging process, through earlier and better detection of disease, stem cell developments, gene-based therapies, cloning, nanotechnology, and artificial intelligence. Experts believe that future therapies may significantly extend longevity, to the extent that a significant proportion of the population could be enabled to live to 100.

It is also an unprecedented and relatively recent challenge to governments, healthcare providers, pension systems, and many others. The situation was different under Chancellor Otto von Bismarck, when in 1889 Germany became the first country to introduce a social insurance system for those reaching 70 (though even by 1916 the retirement age had reduced to 65). As the relative numbers were small, the governments of the time felt that a mandatory retirement age was appropriate. Since 2000, the position has shifted from “pro-retirement” to “pro-work”, in the sense of encouraging older workers to continue to work, with a minimum age set for accessing a deferred pension scheme. In the US in 2010, for instance, there were no longer earning limits for retirees between 65 and 70, thus providing an incentive to continue working, while the age at which security benefits were accessible slowly increased from 65 to 67. Furthermore, the financial crises arising initially in 2008 will have heightened the motivation to continue working for those whose reduced retirement savings and loss of pension benefits were created by the banking collapse.

In this context it is unfortunate (for governments) that there are yet more retirees to consider. “Never in the history of humanity have so many people grown so old at the same time …an unprecedented aging boom, which will more than double the number of people over 65 by 2050,”3 so began a piece in the American magazine Monitor on Psychology. The article went on to tease out the implications for society. In Britain, this boom was referred to dramatically as “The population time-bomb,”4 where it was emphasized that for the first time there were at that stage more pensioners than under-16 year-olds. Quoting the Office for National Statistics, the newspaper went on to note a shift from 15 percent of the population being of pensionable age in 1971 to 19 percent in 2008, when the figure had increased at double the previous rate. Although the most marked increase was for the over-eighties, there was a concern about the “explosive” consequences for Britain's National Health Service (NHS) and for pensions. Bear in mind that, when the first pensions were introduced in Britain in 1908, a man of 65 could only expect to live for 12 more years on average, a position that had hardly altered 50 years ago. Now we understand that between 2006 and 2072 the number of people over 65 will double (and those over 80 will treble), resulting in further impacts on the economy and on the NHS (e.g. roughly one-third of mental health services are concerned with the over-sixty-fives).5 In turn, nearly a fifth of those alive in Britain in 2011 will reach 100.

The statistics from the US are similarly stunning. When the Social Security Act of 1935 first provided benefits to workers reaching the age of 65, the average life expectancy was a mere 62 years, so only a minority actually benefitted. The creation of a formal retirement status appears to have been the US government's response to the Great Depression, as there were very few jobs available. In this context, the older workers needed to be encouraged to give up their jobs for younger workers, hence the introduction of pension plans, mandatory retirement, and so forth. Latterly the prospects for US retirees have become much brighter. For example, someone who was aged 65 in 2007 could expect to live to 74. In terms of the challenge facing US society, the baby boom cohort (i.e. those born between 1946 and 1964) equates to some 78 million people, and they will be reaching their retirement age during the next decade, when their life expectancy will increase yet further. This raises questions about the country's ability to provide a viable retirement income, and experts anticipate that individuals will have to bear more of the financial burden. This is stressful enough, but is aggravated by the individual having to make investment decisions that would previously have been made by the state, as well as having to manage their funds and cope with the associated risk.

These statistics amount to the general position that most of us living in developed countries can currently expect to spend up to a third of our lives in retirement (though such are the concerns for the economy that governments are currently seeking to raise the retirement age, and to remove the obligation on employers and workers to retire at a certain age). In summary, given the major improvements in life expectancy and healthcare, living well into your retirement years has rarely looked so favorable. In turn, this raises questions about how those who retire can make the most of their seeming good fortune: how can we achieve happiness in the newly-protracted era of retirement?

As many have discovered, reaching a contented retirement state it is not necessarily a straightforward or simple matter: estimates suggest that as approximately one-quarter of those who retire will endure a stressful, complicated transition. This is partly due to health problems, as one's sixties is a time when illness strikes. According to The Office for National Statistics, in the UK a man can, on average, enjoy good health until 63, whereupon he can expect to suffer a limiting illness for another 15 years before dying. Women do better, suffering a significant illness at 65 and living until they are 82. In the US, the National Center for Health Statistics was more specific about the average onset of diseases for men and women combined: diabetes at 51, arthritis at 55, breast cancer at 61, prostate cancer at 68, and rectal cancer at 71! A pretty sobering set of statistics and part of the reason for regarding retirement as challenging, while also recognizing that there are now treatments that can limit or even remove most of these diseases. As a result, the period that someone of 60 can now expect to remain “unlimited” by illness (i.e. able to function with limited discomfort or limited disability) in Western countries is increasing, almost by the year (one expert estimated that life expectancy was increasing currently by 2.5 years every decade). This is increasing the “wellness window,” giving us increasing years to develop through retirement.

Chronic illness is not the only threat facing retirees, as there is also a psychological challenge. This arises (as it does for every other transition we have to make through our lives) because we reach another threshold in our development; another milestone or “turning point” when we need to take stock and adapt to changing circumstances and fresh tasks. A classic instance is coping with retirement from paid employment. The case study of Trevor in this chapter is an illustration. Indeed, the main inspiration for writing this book was to highlight and try to address the surprisingly tricky experience that many face on retirement. To treat the transition with the care and attention it merits, I have set out a “recipe” for success. This is drawn from the latest research, from relevant theories of human development, and from general wisdom on how we might best cope (i.e. what my sample of case studies have to say about succeeding, together with my own experience as a clinical psychologist). Of course, there are numerous ingredients in successful coping during retirement, but the basic ones can be set out in this acronym:

Resources (e.g. sufficient money)
Exercise
Coping strategies
Intellectual activity
Purpose
Engagement (social support)

Some of these basic ingredients are more significant than others, more powerful or central in their importance, and so this book will naturally give due weight to them. Prime among the basic ingredients is the way that we cope, the social and psychological strategies that we are able to draw on to tackle the challenges we face in developing. The RECIPE acronym also helps us to think about how the ingredients are combined – what are the accompanying instructions for a successful retirement? In this sense one might say that we should start with the act of retirement, a significant life event. What is the particular nature of that momentous event? Next we should attend to the way that it was processed – was it whisked up into something that became overwhelming? This is the matter of “appraisal', the way that we interpret what is happening. If we happen to perceive our retirement as momentous, we might gear ourselves up for a monstrous struggle, but at the cost of burning up excessive energy. This process of appraisal then triggers our initial coping strategy (“how do I deal with this situation?”), and there is a fair chance that it will be something to do with avoiding or escaping from an uncomfortable situation, as these strategies appear to be the most popular. If this works, then we will tend to busy ourselves with the next problem we face. And so it continues: rarely do we pause for some thoughtful, balanced re-appraisal of what we faced, or of how we faced it. In so doing, we will have missed the chance to develop how we tackle life's challenges. One of the features of retirement is that we have a special opportunity to reflect constructively on our life, special because we now know better than ever that we should be making the most of our situation, probably have better resources for coping than ever before (“life wisdom”), and perhaps too an enhanced realization that “this is it”: this could well be our final transition, so let's give it our best shot!

Stress and Retirement

Although surveys suggest that the majority of retirees feel comfortable about their retirement these days (reporting happiness, emotional wellbeing, and life satisfaction), it was not long ago that the situation was rather different. For instance, prior to World War II retirement was uncommon, partly because life expectancy was much lower, but also because there was no state mandate or pension provision. However, the international advent of compulsory and pensioned retirement has not been straightforward. Althou...

Table of contents

• Cover
• Title Page
• Copyright
• Dedication
• About this Book and Author
• Acknowledgments
• Chapter 1: The Surprises of Retirement
• Chapter 2: Understanding Retirement
• Chapter 3: Reframing Retirement
• Chapter 4: Relating in Retirement
• Chapter 5: Supporting Retirement
• Chapter 6: Learning from Life
• Chapter 7: Learning for Life
• Chapter 8: Conclusions
• Recommended Reading
• Index