Improve Your Communication Skills

How to Build Trust, Be Heard and Communicate with Confidence

Alan Barker

• Verlag: Kogan Page
• Jahr: 2019
• ISBN:
  9780749486280
• Auflage: 5
• Thema: Personal Development
• Thema: Careers

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Appendix

Where to go from here

Communication is continuous, and we never finish learning how to improve. My blog explores issues and events relating to the material in this book. You can find it at: bit.ly/1zgJBvo.

Here are some thoughts about books and other resources that will take further the ideas we’ve explored in this book.

About this book

• You can find a copy of the Economist Intelligence Unit’s report, Communication Barriers in the Modern Workplace, here: https://bit.ly/2OTJ2Vn.
• Find a link to the Interact consultancy’s report here: https://bit.ly/2DhDrmF.
• The GMAC’s 2017 Corporate Recruiters Survey is available here: https://bit.ly/2Pwo5Au.

Chapter 1: What is communication?

• The fullest explanation I have found of the transmission model of communication is on Mick Underwood’s magnificent (and award-winning) website: bit.ly/29CaP7Q.
• I draw on the work of Joe Griffin and Ivan Tyrrell throughout this book. You can find out about their work by going to the Human Givens Institute website (hgi.org.uk). Their book, Human Givens: The new approach to emotional health and clear thinking, is an excellent introduction to this body of knowledge and research.
• Chris Dyas explains his five steps to building rapport here: bit.ly/29xhu5U.
• The Wikipedia article on Paul Watzlawick provides useful information and links.

Chapter 2: What’s your communication style?

• My model of communication styles draws on a number of sources. I’ve borrowed the term ‘functional’ from the styles model illustrated in the 2017 report by the Economist Intelligence Unit. This model seems to be based on the work of Mark Murphy, founder of Intelligence IQ – although the report does not, I think, acknowledge him. Murphy’s model is broadly similar to the Wilson Social Styles model and the Insights Discovery method, both of which I have used in my own consultancy work. You can find information on all three approaches online. Insights claims that the Discovery product, like the Myers-Briggs profile, is a personality assessment tool, drawing on the work of Carl Gustav Jung. My own model doesn’t claim to demonstrate anything about personality.
• The ‘push’ and ‘pull’ influencing styles are part of situational influencing theory, often associated with the work of David Berlew and Roger Harrison.
• Empathizing and systemizing are concepts used by Simon Baron-Cohen. Check out his book, The Essential Difference, for more information (Penguin, London, 2003).

Chapter 3: Seven ways to improve your conversations

• First- and second-stage thinking are notions that inform Edward de Bono’s work. Look at Lateral Thinking in Management (Penguin, London, 1982). The four types of conversation derive from the work of Michael Wallacek, who may have been influenced by Werner Erhard.
• Chris Argyris’s ladder of inference is best found in The Fifth Discipline Fieldbook, edited by Peter Senge and others (Nicholas Brealey, London, 1994).
• For more on mind maps, see Tony Buzan’s Use your Head (BBC, London, 1974).

Chapter 4: The skills of enquiry

Nancy Kline’s Time to Think (Ward Lock, London, 1999) is a fascinating study of deep listening.

Chapter 5: The skills of persuasion

• Aristotle explains his three modes of appeal in The Art of Rhetoric (Penguin Classics, London, 1991).
• Caroline Goyder includes her ideas on voice production in her book Gravitas (Vermilion, London, 2014).
• Peter Thompson’s Persuading Aristotle (Kogan Page, London, 1999) entertainingly relates classical rhetoric to modern business techniques.
• For more on pyramids, look at Barbara Minto’s The Pyramid Principle (Pitman, London, 1987).

Chapter 6: Tough conversations

• Find out how well Paul McLean’s model of the triune brain is surviving:
  • bit.ly/1PaQK8G.
  • bit.ly/1PB8vID.
• Find out more about the limbic system here: bit.ly/29HkLz9.
• Explore our needs as human beings here: bit.ly/29xg4mm.
• And you can take an online emotional needs audit here: bit.ly/29xg1at.

Chapter 7: Making a presentation

• You can find a worked example of Monroe’s motivated sequence here: bit.ly/1ndUE4m.
• PRAISE is based loosely on the material in Made to Stick by Chip and Dan Heath (Arrow, London, 2008).
• Jens Kjeldsen has analysed slide usage in his paper, ‘The Rhetoric of PowerPoint’: bit.ly/209vX7d.
• Max Atkinson’s book Lend Me Your Ears (Vermilion, London, 2004) takes a strikingly new approach to the subject of presenting and speech writing.

Chapter 8: Putting it in writing

• Justin Kruger’s paper on email’s potential for misunderstandings is here: bit.ly/SyB0jo.
• Kristin Byron’s article, ‘Carrying too heavy a load?’, is available here: bit.ly/1OrR5QJ.
• Jay Heinrichs talks about the tenses of persuasion in his book Thank You for Arguing (Three Rivers Press, New York, 2013).
• Alan Barker’s Writing at Work (Industrial Society, London, 1999) is a comprehensive guide to writing business documents.

Chapter 9: Networking

• Two books taking usefully complementary approaches to networking are Steven D’Souza’s Brilliant Networking (Pearson Education, Harlow, 2008), and Power Networking by Donna Fisher and Sandy Vilas (Bard Press, Atlanta, GA, 2000).