STEP 1
RECOGNIZING REALITY
In this chapter, weâre going to look at your personal financial situationâwhere youâre at right now. Weâll figure out what wealth means to you, look at some hard facts about the economy, and come to a realistic conclusion about what you need to do to put yourself on a path that will allow you to live well and retire comfortably.
But first, let me tell you how I got started on my own road to wealth . . .
THE DAY I DECIDED TO GET RICH
It doesnât take a genius to get rich. Nor are special talents required. You donât need to be lucky. And you certainly donât need to be privileged. You do, however, have to make getting rich a priority in your lifeâand be willing to focus the majority of your time and energy on doing what it takes to build real wealth.
I discovered this early on in my career.
It was 1982. I had just been hired as editorial director for a fledgling newsletter-publishing company in South Florida. Because I had to give the occasional speech, I enrolled myself in a Dale Carnegie course on public speaking. Somehow, though, I ended up in the Carnegie basic success course instead.
The How to Win Friends and Influence People program is a 14-week course in which you are asked to focus on a certain characterchanging task each week and then report on your progress the following week.
I was the worst student in the class. Cynical and suspicious, I despised what I took to be the silly, do-goodish prattle of the teachers. But Iâd paid good money to be there, so I grudgingly went along with the programâand Iâm very glad I did.
The assignment for week 4 was to come up with a single goal that you would pursue for the remaining 10 weeks of the program. The idea was that by concentrating on only one goal, you could make much more progress than you would with a wider scope of objectives.
Sure enough, I had a hell of a time with that lesson. For me, it was by far the most difficult of the 14.
When I first started listing my goals, I could think of only two or three. But as I put more thought into it, the list began to expand ... first to half a dozen . . . then to 10 . . . and then 20 . . . and on and on. Narrowing down the list was torture. Among other things, I wanted to be a great writer, a wise teacher, an admirable dad and husband, a linguist, a wine connoisseur, an athlete, and more. I was paralyzed. I simply couldnât tolerate the idea of giving up any one of those goals.
Finally, driving to the class at which I was to publicly announce my one main goal, I had a breakthrough. I realized that all my hard work and ambition had amounted to nothing because I had been spreading myself so thin.
Then I had an idea: âWhy not make making money my number one goal?â I thought. âIf I achieve that goal, Iâll have all the money I need to pursue my other interests.â
At the time, I knew nothing about making money. I had come from a family of teachers who didnât care much about money or the things it can buy. But I focused on that one goal and made it my priority. And it worked. Big time.
My income started to climb. I had been making $36,000 at the time, and it doubled in 12 months . . . and then tripled the year after . . . and then kept on multiplying. I developed an interest not only in how money is made, but also in how it is lost and what it can do for you.
I began reading about it, talking about it, asking about itâtrying to unlock its secrets. At the same time, the publishing company I was working for was changing its focus from providing information about business and travel to financial planning and investing. And I was fortunate enough to get to know some very smart people who seemed to truly understand how money works and some very successful businesspeople who had demonstrated how wealth is actually made.
This experience completely changed my ideas about wealth. Before my conversion, I felt that money was, at best, a necessary evil. But after I took the time to learn about it, I decided that wealth is actually a pretty good thingânot the most important thing in life, but a good thing that can make it easier to find time for the other, more important things.
THE REAL MEANING OF WEALTH
I remember when my income first broke through the $150,000 mark. Louis, my accountant at the time, was amused by my innocent astonishment at making so much money.
âWelcome to the world of the rich,â he told me.
âCome on, Louis,â I said. âIâm making barely more than one and a half grand.â
âThink of it this way,â he told me. âWhen you have a family income of less than $50,000, itâs a struggle. When you make between $50,000 and $150,000, you have everything you need and some of what you want. But when you make more than $150,000, life is good. You can live in a beautiful house in a safe neighborhood, drive nice cars, go out to dinner once or twice a week, and do some traveling.â
âBut what about the mansions, yachts, and private jets?â I asked. âI still canât afford those.â
âThose are just toys,â he said. â$150,000 per year is all you really need to live a full, rich life. And hereâs the interesting thing: This doesnât change in any meaningful way when your income passes $200,000, $300,000, or $400,000. In fact, it doesnât really change until you are making more than a million dollars.â
Back then, I only half understood what Louis was trying to tell me. Now, I think I get it completely.
There are four basic income levels:
1. If you have a family income of less than $50,000, itâs tough to make ends meet.
2. If you earn between $50,000 and $150,000, you are getting by. Your bills are paid and you can afford some small luxuries, but you have to be careful.
3. When your family income exceeds $150,000, you are living well and want for nothing (unless you have 10 children).
4. When your family income exceeds $1 million, you can spend money without much thinking. You donât need a budget. You can be extravagant.
But making a million dollars does not increase the quality of your lifeâand it does not, in itself, guarantee that you will have financial security till the end of your days. What it does do is make saving infinitely easier. Because unless you are completely out of control, you will be able to save most if not all of your after-tax income that exceeds the million. And saving is key to jump-starting the Automatic Wealth program.
So if you can get your income above a million, you can get rich, relatively quickly, merely by saving. And that may happen simply by following the advice Iâll be giving you in Step 3.
But if your primary income doesnât grow so dramatically, donât despair. You can still achieve financial independence in a relatively short period of time (less than 15 years, certainly; probably less than 7) by developing additional streams of income. Iâll tell you how to do that, too.
BEING RICH IS NOT JUST ABOUT HAVING MONEY IN THE BANK
One of the most active discussions that ever appeared on the online forum for
ETR, my daily e-zine, was in response to the simple question âWhat is wealth?â This question prompted a deluge of interesting answers, from the mundane to the pragmatic to the philosophically problematic. Answers like these:
ARE YOU A SAVER OR A SPENDER?
As I see it, the wealth-seeking world is divided into two camps. In one, you have the wealth accumulators: men and women who are cautious about spending but eager to save and invest. The other camp is populated with spenders: men and women who are obsessed with things. They spend all their spare money, and often much more than that, buying things that say ârichâ but actually impoverish them.
To become wealthy, first you need to build a small nest egg by spending less than you earn. Simple, huh? But not if you donât have the selfdiscipline to do it.
Weâll be talking more about this in Step 3. Meanwhile, keep in mind that even though the material things you hunger for are indisputably of value, unless you have the financial capacity to keep them, to maintain them, and to replace them, you donât have wealth. You simply have its obligations.
âą A million dollars in the bank
âą Having everything you want
âą The power to command results
âą Being loved by your family and friends
âą Having tangible assets sufficient to meet the physical needs of yourself and your loved ones
âą Having a balanced life
âą Inner peace and spiritual enlightenment
âą Excellent health and immunity from disease
This is just a small sampling of what our readers had to say, but it gives you an idea about how varied and sometimes vague our thinking about wealth can be. And although I recognize the sense in many of these definitions, I find it impossible to talk to people about wealth unless I can get them to agree on some basic terms. So letâs do that now.
I suggest that we start with this definition: Wealth is a store of something valuable.
I like that definition because it is simple and because, no matter what it is that you value, it emphasizes something essential about wealth: the idea of storage. Having the things you desireâsay, a big house and fancy carsâdoes not make you materially wealthy if you donât have the wherewithal to keep those goods over a protracted period of time. Nor are you wealthy in friendship if the many friends you have now would abandon you if your fortune changed.
The point Iâm making here may be too obvious to mention: that wealth is only sometimes about money. Understanding wealth in a broader sense, with implications that go beyond dollars and cents, is essential.
Yes, the main purpose of this book is to help you become financially independent. But you want financial independence for specific reasons:
âą You want more freedom in your life. You want more choice about where you live, how you live, how much you work, and so on.
âą You want more leisure in your life. You donât want to feel compelled to work 8 or 10 hours every day, or five and six days every week.
âą You want more tranquility in your life. You would like an end to the stress that the lack of money sometimes causes. You want to be able to sleep easily at night and enjoy your days without worry.
These goals are wrapped up very tightly in your desire for wealthâand as a result, they are a fundamental part of every step in my Automatic Wealth program.
Letâs push a little further along this path and delve a little deeper into the way you think about your life and the things you value.
INTERESTING FACT: Only about one-half of 1 percent of U.S. households have a net worth of $5 million or more, excluding primary residences, according to the Spectrem Group, a consulting firm specializing in affluent and retirement markets. And only 0.2 percent of U.S. households have a net worth of $15 million or more, including their homes, according to the Federal Reserve.
PLAN TO BE WEALTHY IN EVERY IMPORTANT WAY
Iâm hoping that money is not the most important thing in your life.
Nevertheless, material wealth does matter. It gives you the ability to help your friends, provide for your family, pursue intellectual and artistic interests, and become an inspirational role model for members of your community.
Plus, if you donât have an income sufficient to meet your needs, youâll spend a good deal of time fretting about itâand when you spend time fretting about money, you canât enjoy the things you truly care about.
This is a truth that more and more baby boomers (including a few of my friends and family members) have recently discovered. Stumbling into middle age with lifetimes of educational, social, and recreational experiences, yesterdayâs hippies are hitting their 50s with the depressing realization that they are working harder than ever to maintain a lifestyle that is not much better than the one they had in college.
Iâve had the good fortune to be able to help dozens of such people work themselves out of this sort of bog, regain solid ground, and go on to achieve financial independence. It took some time and it wasnât always easy, but it always began with a revelationâa revelation that was especially bracing for some of the smartest of themâthat becoming financially independent is a good thing, something all good people should aspire to.
Having enough money can liberate you from a thankless job, free you to follow dreams, and allow you to take care of your loved ones.
Thatâs the reason youâre reading this book.
But never forget that the desire for money can also corrupt you. If, in pursuing wealth, you begin to believe that the accumulation of money is an end in itselfâwell, thatâs a bad thing.
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