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Some Reflections Upon Marriage
Mary Astell
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Some Reflections Upon Marriage
Mary Astell
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Published anonymously in 1700, Some Reflections upon Marriage lamented the inequities of the institution of marriage and reasoned against it with both traditional and innovative arguments. Mary Astell's tract, written in response to an infamous divorce case, forcefully argued against the grim but all-too-common prospect of a marriage of necessity to a man in search of power, money, or a trophy wife. Astell proposed education as the solution to women's second-class status, stating that knowledge alone could lead to a partnership based on friendship and respect. "Let us learn to pride ourselves in something more excellent than the invention of a fashion, " she wrote, and her well-reasoned arguments soon won her a wide readership.
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Historia del mundoSOME
REFLECTIONS
UPON
Marriage,
Occasionâd by the
Duke & Dutchess
OF
Mazarineâs
CASE
;
Which is also considerâd.
LONDON:
Printed for John Nutt near Stationers-
Hall, 1700.
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Hese Reflections being made in the Country, where
the Book that occasionâd them came but late to Hand,
the Reader is desirâd to excuse their Unseasonableness as well as other Faults; and to believe that they have no other Design than to Correct some Abuses, which are not the less because Power and Prescription seem to Authorize them. If any is so needlessly curious as to enquire from what Hand they come, they may please to know, that it is not good Manners to ask, since the Title-Page does not tell them: We are all of us sufficiently Vain, and withÂout doubt the Celebrated Name of Author, which most are so fond of, had not been avoided but for very good Reasons: To name but one; Who will care to pull upon themselves an Hornetâs Nest? âTis a very great Fault to regard rather who it is that Speaks, than what is spoken; and either to submit to Authority, when we should only
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yield to Reason; or if Reason press too hard, to think to ward it off by Personal Objections and Reflections. Bold Truths may pass while the Speaker is Incognito, but are seldom endurâd when he is known; few Minds being strong enough to bear what contradicts their Principles and Practices without recriminating when they can. And thoâ to tell the Truth be the most Friendly Office, yet whoÂsoever is so hardy as to venture at it, shall be counted an Enemy for so doing.
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SOME
REFLECTIONS
UPON
MARRIAGE
,
Occasionâd by the Duke and Dutchess
of
Mazarineâs
CASE
; which is
also considerâd.
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Uriosity, which is sometimes an occasion of Good, and too frequently of Mischief, by disturbing either our Own, or our Neighbourâs Repose, having put me upon
reading the Duke and Dutchess of Mazarineâs Case; I thought an Afternoon wouâd not be quite thrown away in pursuing some Reflections that it occaÂsionâd. The name of Mazarine is considerable e-
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nough to draw the Eyes of the curious, and when one remembers what a noise it had made in Europe, what PolÂitick Schemes have been laid, what vast designs brought about by the Cardinal that bore it; how well his measures were concerted for the Grandeur of that Nation, into which he was transplanted, and that he wanted neither Power nor Inclination to establish his own Family and make it as considerable as any Subjects could possible be, and what Honours and Riches he had heapâd together in order to this, one cannot but enquire how it comes about that he should be so defeated in this last design; and that those to whom he intrusted his Name and TreaÂsure, should make a figure so very different from what might have been expected from them. And thoâ one had not Piety enough to make a Religious Reflection, yet Civil Prudence woulâd almost enforce them to say, that Man being in Honour has no Understanding, but is comparâd unto the Beasts that Perish. He blesseth his Soul, and thinks himself a happy Man, imagining his House will endure for ever, and that he has establishâd his Name and Family. But how wise soever he may be in other
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respects, in this he acts no better than the Ignorant and Foolish. For as he carries nothing away with him when he dies, so neither will his Pomp and Glory descend as he intended. Generous and Worthy Actions only can secure him from Oblivion, or what is worse, being remembred with Contempt; so little reason have we to envy any Manâs Wealth and Greatness, but much to Emulate his Wisdom and Vertue.
The Dutchess of Mazarineâs Name has spread perhaps as far as her Uncleâs, and one canât help wishing that so much Wit and Beauty, so much Politeness and Address, had been accompanyâd and supported by more valuable and lasting Qualities; one cannot but desire that her Advocate instead of recriminating had clearâd the imputations laid on her, and that she her self, who says enough in her Memoirs, to shew she was unfortunate, had said more to prove her self discreet. They must be highly ill-naturâd who do not pity her ill fortune at the same time that they must blame her Conduct, and regret that such a Treasure should fall into his hands who was not worthy of it, nor knew how to value and improve it; that she who was capable of being a great
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Ornament to her Family and Blessing to the Age she livâd in, should only serve (to say no worse) as an unhappy Shipwrack to point out the dangers of an ill Education and unequal Marriage.
Monsieur Mazarine is not to be justified, nor Madam his Spouse excusâd. It is no question which is most CrimiÂnal, the having no sense, or the abuse of a liberal Portion, nor any hard matter to determine who is most to be pityâd, he whom Nature never qualifyâd for great things, who thereÂfore canât be very sensible of great Misfortunes; or she, who being capable of every thing, must therefore suffer more and be the more lamented. To be yoakâd for Life to a disÂagreeable Person and Temper; to have Folly and Ignorance tyrannize over Wit and Sense; to be contradicted in every thing one does or says, and bore down not by Reason but Authority; to be denied ones most innocent desires for no other cause, but the Will and Pleasure of an absolute Lord and Master, whose follies a Woman with all her Prudence cannot hide, and whose Commands she cannot but despise at the same time she obeys them, is a misery none can have a just Idea of, but those who have felt it.
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These are great Provocations, but nothing can justify the revenging the Injuries we receive from others, upon our selves: The Italian Proverb shews a much better way Vuoi far vendetta del tuo nemico governati bene. If you would be revengâd of your Enemies, live well. Had Madam Mazarineâs Education made a right improvement of her Wit and Sense, we should not have found her seeking Relief by such imprudent, not to say Scandalous Methods, as the running away in Disguise with a spruce Cavalier, and rambling to so many Courts and Places, nor diverting her self with such Childish, Ridiculous, or Ill-naturâd AmuseÂments, as the greatest part of the Adventures in her MemÂoirs are made up of. True Wit consists not meerly in doing or saying what is out of the way, but in such surprizing things as are fit and becoming the Person from whom they come. That which stirs us up to Laughter most commonly excites our Contempt; to Please, and to make Merry are two very different Talents. But what Remedies can be adminisÂtered, what Relief expected, when Devotion, the only true support in Distress, is turnâd into Ridicule? Unhappy is that Grandeur which makes us too great to be good; and
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that Wit which sets us at a distance from true Wisdom. Even Bigotry it self, as contemptible as it is, is preferable to Prophane Wit; for that only requires our Pity, but this deserves our Abhorrence.
A Woman who seeks Consolation under Domestick trouÂbles from the Gaieties of a Court, from Gaming and Courtship, from Rambling and odd Adventures, and the Amusements mixt Company affords, may Plaister up the Sore, but will never heal it; nay, which is worse, she makes it Fester beyond a possibility of Cure. She justifies the Injury her Husband has done her, by shewing that whatever other good Qualities she may have, Discretion, one of the Principal, is wanting. She may be Innocent, but she can never prove she is so; all that Charity can do for her when sheâs Censurâd is only to be silent; it can make no Apologies for suspicious Actions. An ill Husband may deprive a Wife of the comfort and quiet of her Life; may give her occasion of exercising her Virtue, may try her Patience and Fortitude to the utmost, but thatâs all he can do: âtis her self only can accomplish her Ruin. Had Madam Mazarinâs Reserve been what it ought to be, Monsieur Herard needed not to have warded off so carefully, the nice
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Subject of the Ladyâs Honour, nor her Advocate have strainâd so hard for Colours to excuse such Actions as will hardly bear âem; but a Man indeed shews the best side of his Wit, thoâ the worst of his Integrity, when he has an ill Cause to manage. Truth is bold and vehement; she depends upon her own strength, and so she be placâd in a true Light, thinks it not necessary to use Artifice and Address as a RecÂommendation; but the prejudices of Men have made them necessary: their Imagination gets the better of their UnderÂstanding, and more judge...