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CHAPTER 1
Seven Realities of Selling Services
Filmmaker Woody Allen reportedly once said, â80 percent of success is just showing up.â1 If that aphorism were true about selling, there would be little need for the countless books, seminars, web sites, and software programs that claim to be vital to sellersâ success. Especially when it comes to selling services, youâre likely to lose 80 percent of the time if you just show up. Imagine the advantage you would gain if your competitors believed thatâs all they had to do.
If you ask 10 successful salespeople how they land profitable work, you will not hear, âHey, I just go and see what happens.â Their answers will reveal consistent patterns of behavior that contribute to their clientsâ success and, by extension, their own. Itâs not accurate to call their behaviors customer-centered or client-focused, because that would imply that these sellers were, at some point, not focused on the client, which isnât the case. Instead, these sellers embraced the transformation of the sellerâs role to business adviser long before most people knew a transformation of selling was under way.
They also refuse to accept conventional selling wisdom at face value. Maybe there are cases, for example, when a client relationship is not the most important factor in a services sale. How can there be a list of hard-and-fast rules for selling services when each sales situation presents a unique mix of challenges, issues, and people? After all, todayâs winning âruleâ can readily become tomorrowâs relic.
Top sellers do share this goal: to deliver extraordinary value to their clients before, during, and after the sale. To accomplish that, they uncover what each client really needs and then use flexible, pragmatic strategies to chalk up wins for all concerned. Most of all, they understand the realities of selling services, and they use that knowledge to help their clients and themselves.
Sales Reality #1: You Must Prove Your Answers to the Three Burning Questions
Not all that long ago, services sellers rarely had to do much more than proclaim the greatness of their experience and promise to deliver results to make a sale. Naturally, even then this wasnât always sufficient. But often enough, competitive situations became battles of seller promises. And whoever made the most confident claims won.
Sadly for some, those days are gone. The âAssert and Promiseâ routine always made for a good show. But those who cling to this antiquated approach will watch their profits slip away. Granted, you necessarily make assertions during the sales process. Whatâs changed is that you have to prove every assertion and show how youâll fulfill each promiseâin detail. It doesnât matter whether your company is Global Galactic LLC or Two Guys in a Garage, Inc. You must back up everything you say.
Specifically, be ready to prove your answers to the three burning questions every client will ask (or is wondering about):
1. Do you really understand what we need? You have to demonstrate that you understand why the issue must be resolved and the implications of any solution you propose. You need to address risk and how you manage it, complexity, and the realistic level of client effort to get the job done. Clients expect you to take their preliminary ideas about how to manage a challenge and take that thinking a step further. Otherwise, why would they need you? To do that, you must grasp the issue with a degree of depth that allows you to speak authoritatively about resolving it. You prove your competence by conducting substantive discussions on the details of the issue. A superficial understanding will only get you into trouble and will likely lead to a sales process that veers off course. Your efforts to comprehend your clientsâ situation send an important signal that you are thinking about their interests. That begins to build trust, which will serve you throughout the sales process and your client relationships.
2. Can you do what you claim? As you talk to clients about your capabilities, imagine them uttering silently to themselves that famous line from the movie, Jerry Maguire, âShow me the money!â2 Theyâre probably thinking about some version of that demand. Until you prove what you claim, by whatever means your clients want, itâs all puffery. Donât use an unproven claim anywhere in your proposals, presentations, or discussions with clients. Be ready with your evidence, even if you donât need all of it.
3. Will you work well with us? Expect clients to test whether you and your team fit with theirs. You donât have to be clones of your clientâs team, so ignore most advice about creating artificial rapport by pretending youâre someone youâre not. On the other hand, donât be tough to work with, either. Find the balance between being too aggressive and being a pushover, and check your ego at the door. Remember, you may answer the first two questions with flying colors, but fail this one and youâre likely to lose the sale.
Besides seeking answers to these questions, clients will also try to gauge how much you care about what theyâre doing. Some clients will assume that your interests are self-serving, but people pick up on the true motives of others in time. Be patient. If you do really care, your clients will figure that out soon enough. If you donât, theyâll know that, too.
How to Escape the Commodity Trap
Some sellers complain that clients view their services as a commodity, leading them to ask for lower and lower prices. If clients say or imply that they canât differentiate your services from those of others, what theyâre really saying is that they canât differentiate your ideas. And that shifts the competitive battle to something they can differentiate: price.
You can escape the commodity trap with the power of your ideas. That is, after all, what you are selling. Find the insights and innovative approach that set you apart from others. Clients want your ideas, especially ones theyâre not hearing from every other services seller. Communicate your best ideas to clients and avoid the commodity trap.
Sales Reality #2: Insights and CapabilitiesâNot RelationshipsâClose Sales
Suggesting that a strong client relationship is important to the services sale is like saying humans need oxygen to survive. Everyone knows that itâs more comfortable, and often more beneficial, to buy from someone you know and trust. But itâs easy to overestimate the power of those relationships, especially when it comes to selling services. The days of clients automatically handing work to their favorites went the way of the threemartini lunch. Even a multiyear client relationship doesnât earn you a free pass, and it shouldnât.
Overestimating the influence of a client relationship can lead to complacency and a lack of the pure hustle you used to start that relationship. Maybe the client returns your calls immediately and gives you an audience whenever you like. But that level of access should encourage you to work even harder to make an impact. Some service providers check in with their top clients and use the time for informal conversations about the clientâs issues. If youâre not ready to give your client two or three items of value for everything they share with you, that relationship will eventually lose steam.
Think about the first three meetings you had with your best client. Chances are that you prepared with intensity and looked for ways to bring original ideas your client could use. Thatâs the behavior that got your relationship moving, and thatâs what will nurture it. Remember, the value of the relationship to the client lies in your ability to integrate your past experiences and your creativity to generate insightful guidance. Assume that the client holds you to a higher standard of performance than a new competitor, and youâll keep the relationship vibrant. Building relationships of mutual respect with clients gives any service provider an edgeâif you take care of the relationship. But relationships take you only so far. They may open doors for you, but donât assume that past client relationships will also close sales.
Sanity Check: Maybe the Client Doesnât Want a âRelationshipâ
The conventional wisdom is that you should pursue trust-based relationships with every client. While thatâs generally good advice, some clients donât want or need a relationship with you. They are perfectly happy with mutually productive transactions with you and have zero interest in taking it further. Donât be offended if a client doesnât want to pursue a long-term relationship, and donât assume that the client is not right for your business for that reason alone.
Sales Reality #3: The Client Buying Experience Trumps Sales Techniques
Think about the last time you bought a small electronic product like a calculator, watch, or a data storage device. Chances are the product was encased in thick, molded plastic packaging, with no visible way to free the productâexcept maybe a hacksaw. That packaging makes the sellerâs life easier, not the customerâs. Such experiences influence buyersâ opinions. Some people swear theyâll never buy again from a company that makes it so difficult to use their products.
In that sense, the sale of a service is no different. Your clientâs experience in working with you has enormous impact on the buying decision. You want that experience to be the opposite of trying to pry open that hard plastic product casing. Your job is to create a buying process that works for your client, not just for you.
The concept isnât exactly radical: You and the client codesign a buying process together, which allows the client to learn, analyze, and decide how and when to buy. Instead of focusing on how to sell to the client, you work to identify and create the conditions under which the client is comfortable buying. How do you design a client buying experience? Ask questions.
For instance, donât assume that a client wants to see a presentation, call references, and then read a proposal. Offer alternatives for the client to learn about you. Maybe your client wants a series of small group briefings, an interview with the service delivery team, and a call of support from your boss. The possibilities are endless, but you wonât know how clients want to buy unless you ask. And youâll get kudos for bringing up the subject.
Some sellers take this codesigned buying concept a step further by offering to help their clients solve some aspect of the current problem as part of the sales process. Maybe the client has questions about managing the prospective change or about how to decide which seller to choose. Itâs becoming more common for sellers to lend their expertise in these matters to make the clientâs life simpler and to create a positive buying experience.
No matter how your client wants to buy, youâll still undertake traditional sales activities such as identifying decision makers, positioning your services in a favorable way, and communicating why you are the best choice. Youâll pursue the precise activities, though, in collaboration with the client, not according to some predefined sales process.
Sales Reality #4: Likability Is Overrated
Sales experts tell us that people buy from people they like, so we should get out there and get on the buyerâs good side. Some claim that people never buy from someone they donât like. The unfortunate result of this perspective is that salespeople get caught up in trying to win a popularity contest. Naturally, you donât want clients to find you repulsive, and no one wants to hire a jerk. But trying to get a buyer to like you is the epitome of seller-centric behavior, and clients instinctively recognize it as such. When you try to steer attention your way, it diverts everyoneâs attention from the problem at hand, and thatâs not good for you, the client, or the sale. Robert Cialdini, author of the classic book,
Influence, has this take on likability:
In every sales training program, the first rule is that you have to get the buyer to like you. I think thatâs wrong. The first rule of sales is for you to come to like the buyer.
When you feel sincere affinity and concern for someone, that person usually senses those feelings, and barriers go down. Thatâs because you are much more likely to protect that personâs interests, and so both sides win. Besides, you canât control what the person across the table feels about you, but you can control what you feel toward that person.3
If you are skeptical, ask any politician whether this works and youâll get eager nods. They know that they must convince voters that they are looking out for the votersâ interests or they wonât win the next election. The reality is that a client may like you, and may even enjoy having you over for dinner, but unless you like your client and behave in ways that demonstrate that, you may be unable to reach a level of trust that encourages that person to buy from you.
Sanity Check: Dump âBusiness Developmentâ from Your Card
When you begin a sales meeting with the ritual business card swap, what message does the title on your business card send? Many sellers use the title, âBusiness Development Manager,â âAccount Representative,â or something similar. Think about how clients view that seemingly innocuous title. It says that you are there to build your business. Look for a more client-focused title, or leave the title off your card entirely. Your client knows that youâre there to sell. No need to make it any more explicit or create barriers before you even hear the clientâs first word.
Sales Reality #5: Your People Are Not Number One for the Buyer
Services sellers often claim that the key to winning is the people they propose to do the work. Some go so far as to say that their companyâs talented people are the ultimate differentiator. Thereâs little doubt that individuals can sway a sale, but to suggest that itâs the primary decision point ignores a simple reality of the sales process: Clients care first about the impact of your services on them; then they think about your people.
Your team does have to make a good impression, and perceived competence is central in selling services. But the people on your team are probably not your buyerâs foremost concern. Consider, for example, the architect who blithely describes the process of demolition and reconstruction of a clientâs office space, or the lawyer who suggests t...