Naming domestic violence
āNamingā historically and logically precedes ādefiningā, as until something is named, it is impossible to speak about it. Early campaigns against sexual violence against women and girls, such as the campaigning by The Womenās Freedom League (established in 1907) referred to āunspeakable outragesā making the point that ārespectableā women could not even talk about anything sexual.
Historically, where violence against women is named terms have been debated. Nineteenth-century accounts commonly refer to āwife beatingā and āwife kickingā yet a feminist campaigner of the time Frances Power Cobb argued that the term āwife beatingā did not reflect the severity of domestic violence suggesting āwife beating is more the preliminary canter before the raceā and preferred to use the term āwife tortureā: āWife beating in process of time and in numberless cases, advances to wife torture and the Wife torture usually ends in Wife maiming, Wife blinding or Wife murderā (Power Cobb, 1878 cited in Radford and Russell, 1992: 48).
In the UK, in the 1970s, the phrase ābattered wifeā was popularly referred to but over time, with insight from the feminist movement, this term has fallen out of currency. Battering referred only to one form of violence ā physical ā and did not encompass sexual or psychological. Today, ābatteringā is a term used in the United States; here in the UK ādomestic violenceā is used, primarily for the pragmatic reason that it is understood in the public domain. Despite the widespread use of the term ādomestic violenceā, it has always been criticised and there are still a variety of terms currently in use.
These terms or ānamesā include:
- domestic violence
- domestic abuse
- intimate partner violence (IPV)
- family violence
- forced marriage
- honour based violence
- gender violence
- coercive control.
At first glance, whether we refer to ādomestic violenceā or ādomestic abuseā may seem irrelevant, and merely a matter of semantics and of little consequence compared to the reality of violence experienced by its victims. We argue that there are several areas in which ānamingā is significant and reflection on terminology and the politics of naming can prove useful both for the student and practitioner alike.
The Home Office definition has traditionally referred to ādomestic violenceā only but following a recent consultation exercise the new Home Office definition refers to ādomestic violence and abuseā (Home Office, 2013). The inclusion of the term āabuseā is not without meaning. It has been suggested by some scholars that āthere is a move for all agencies to adopt the term āabuseā as it reflects a pattern of behaviour which is both criminal and non-criminal in nature and better reflects the true nature of this type of incidentā (Richards et al., 2008: 12).
Perhaps the most important aspect of considering ānamingā is in relation to victims experience of seeking support, as self-identifying behaviour as āviolentā can be important in the process of recognising that domestic violence is occurring. Walby and Allen (2004), for example, found that victims who named incidents as domestic violence were more likely to seek help than those who did not. Women were also more likely to name what happened to them as domestic violence if the violence was physical and if they were severely injured or frequently assaulted and older women were more likely than younger women (especially those 16ā24 years) to name the event as domestic violence (Walby and Allen, 2004).
Such findings echo research conducted by Kelly and Radford (1990) in their memorably named article āNothing Really Happenedā. They highlight the confusion and minimisation faced by victims coming to terms with identifying their own experiences of both sexual and physical violence. They explore the meaning of the phrase ānothing really happenedā to the women themselves and analyse how the minimising and discounting of events that did happen were reflected in and reinforced by the criminal justice system. Underlying Kelly and Radfordās analysis is the recognition that āin order to speak about something one must first be able to name and define itā (Kelly and Radford, 1990: 40). They argue that one of the key contributions of feminist scholarship and activism is to have found and redefined words to reflect Womenās experiences of violence. They point out that words such as ādomestic violenceā prior to feminist recognition simply did not exist and that social definitions are required to enable women and others to identify, recognise and speak about their experience. In essence ānames provide social definitions, make visible what is invisible, define as unaccepted what was accepted; make sayable what was unspeakableā (ibid.).
Domestic Violence
The term ādomestic violenceā is useful in that it highlights the intimate nature of violence that can occur in relationships. āDomestic violenceā is used to describe the relational context of the violence although it might be argued that ādomesticā has an overly ācosyā connotation and feeds the idea that this violence is not as important as other violence (see below).
Critiques of the use of the name ādomestic violenceā have been cited. First, ādomesticā may suggest the term refers to those who live together, whereas ādomestic violenceā can be experienced at different stages of a relationship and is not limited to those who share a living space. Research exists that shows a quarter of women who had experienced domestic violence, had never lived with the partner who had committed the worst act of violence against them (Walby and Allen, 2004). Menās violence towards women often continues after separation and Lees (2000) found that women are at greatest risk of homicide at the point of separation or after leaving a violent partner. Humphreys and Thiara (2002) in a study of 200 women who had experienced domestic violence found that 76 per cent suffered post separation violence. Saunders and Barron (2003) looked at the experience of abused women and children in family courts and found that 46 per cent of service provider respondents knew of cases where a violent partner had used contact proceedings to track down his partner.
Second, feminists have long been critical that the term ādomesticā masks the issue of gender. Although it is acknowledged that men can be victims of domestic violence, women are the more likely victims and research consistently demonstrates āthe fact that perpetrators tend to be men and their victims usually womenā (Dobash and Dobash, 1980; Abrahams, 1994; Mooney, 1994 cited in Hester et al., 2000: 14). Prevalence studies indicate that 1 in 4 women experience domestic violence over their lifetimes (Council of Europe, 2002). In the UK, the Crime Survey for England and Wales (2011/12) demonstrates that āsome 7 percent of women and 5 percent of men were likely to be victims of domestic abuse in the last year, equivalent to an estimated 1.2 million womenā (Office for National Statistics, 2013: 2). Similarly when looking at homicide, the relationship between victims and perpetrators differed by gender with āhomicides against men most likely to be committed by a friend or acquaintance (39%) whereas homicides against women were most likely to be committed by a partner or ex-partner (51%)ā (Office for National Statistics, 2013: 2).
Third, although the relational aspect of violence is encapsulated in the term ādomestic violenceā it fails to identify perpetrators as āknown menā. Although the intimate nature of domestic violence is explicit, the naming of perpetrators as boyfriends, partners, brothers, uncles, fathers and grandfathers is not.
Fourth, debate exists around the use of the word āviolenceā. In considering the limitations of the term domestic āviolenceā and citing Barron et al. (1992) and Hague and Malos (1993), Hester et al. (2000: 14) suggest āāviolenceā may indicate exclusively physical abuse, whereas individuals subject to domestic violence experience a range of different forms of abuse from their partners, not all of which are, in themselves, inherently āviolentāā. Feminists have long acknowledged not only physical and sexual violence as part of domestic violence but also psychological āabuseā and controlling behaviour. As such seemingly non-violent behaviours, i.e. name calling, controlling who the woman sees, who she speaks to, while not obviously violent in nature are accepted as behaviours pertaining to domestic violence. The gendered power dynamics of such behaviour highlights the significant role of menās power and control and the resulting fear that women experience subject to menās abusive or threatening behaviour. As such, women often say that it is not the actual physical violence that is their main concern, but the fear associated with violence or threatening behaviour (Humphreys and Thiara, 2003; Pain, 2012). In the politics of naming domestic violence it is important to recognise the gendered power dynamic involved in domestic violence that allows perpetrators to claim that they too are victimised by abuse i.e. ānaggingā. This was keenly brought to the public attention some 20 years ago when in 1992 Joseph McGrail was given a suspended sentence having killed his wife that he accused of exactly such behaviour (see www.justiceforwomen.org.uk).
Although ādomestic violenceā is commonly associated with the home and behaviour which happens in private ā ābehind closed doorsā ā the extent of menās violence towards women is not confined to the domestic sphere. There is growing awareness that it can oscillate between the private and public sphere and can include new patterns of controlling behaviour. Increasing technological advancement and the development of social network sites provide a prime example. Women can be threatened, controlled, monitored and manipulated via their mobile phone, computer history, Facebook page and email accounts. If domestic violence is a pattern of controlling behaviour, then the process of abuse and its impact is more accurately experienced in everyday spaces, both private and public. This pattern of coercive control (Stark, 2007) coupled with incidents of physical violence in public places i.e. contact centres, Courts, streets, supermarkets, restaurants, bars, schools and places of work, reflects the myriad of spaces in which violence can be used in intimate relationships. As such, ādomesticā violence is more accurately defined through relationships, not geographical location.
Domestic abuse
The increasing use of the term domestic āabuseā by those in the criminal justice system is one which will be more familiar to our North American colleagues. The new Home Office (2013) definition refers to ādomestic violence and abuseā but the interchange of āviolenceā with āabuseā will not happen overnight or without debate.
The inclusion of the term āabuseā in the Home Officeās (2013) definition appears to acknowledge the broader spectrum of domestic violence and the inclusion of coercive and controlling behaviours. On the other hand, this inclusion may implicitly suggest a minimisation or even a step towards decriminalising domestic violence. In the UK the term abuse is more closely associated with child abuse to refer to childrenās experience of psychological, physical and sexual violence. Many find child abuse a more comfortable concept than, for example, child rape and it arguably justifies the longstanding failure to take sexual violence against children seriously.
Those referring to domestic āabuseā often more readily subscribe to a health discourse and associated way of working, rather than a criminal discourse; domestic āabuseā is the term adopted by the British Medical Association (2007). The use of the word āabuseā in this context is perceived as either āpassiveā or āactiveā and is used as an alternative to āviolenceā responding to the critique that ādomestic violence implies the use of physical force and physical assault, not psychological, emotional, financial or sexual abuseā (Sanderson, 2008: 21). Here the term abuse is underpinned by a broad medical model, advocating the benefits of a therapeutic approach in the support of those experiencing domestic violence while overlooking their role in respect of physical injuries.
Intimate partner violence (IPV)
The term āintimate partner violenceā (IPV) is preferred by some as an alternative to domestic violence. The phrase IPV indicates that violence is likely to be experienced and perpetrated by those in a relationship. The phrase itself is gender neutral which, while limiting in its recognition of the gendered nature of domestic violence, is implicitly inclusive of same-sex relationships. The term IPV is m...