Romancing the Brand

How Brands Create Strong, Intimate Relationships with Consumers

Tim Halloran

• Publisher: Jossey-Bass
• Year: 2013
• Print ISBN: 9781118611289
• eBook ISBN: 9781118828977
• Edition: 1
• Topic: Business
• Subtopic: Marketing
• Index: Business

A young woman tells a focus group that Diet Coke is like her boyfriend. A twenty-something tattoos the logo of Turner Classic Movies onto his skin. These consumers aren't just using these brands. They are engaging in a rich, complex, ever-changing relationship, and they'll stay loyal, resisting marketing gimmicks from competitors and influencing others to try the brand they love.

How can marketers cultivate and grow the deep relationships that earn this kind of love and drive lasting success for their brands?

In Romancing the Brand, branding expert Tim Halloran reveals what it takes to make consumers fall in love with your brand. Step by step, he reveals how to start, grow, maintain, and troubleshoot a flourishing relationship between brand and consumer. Along the way, Halloran shares the secrets behind establishing a mutually beneficial "romance." Drawing on exclusive, in-depth interviews with managers of some of the world's most iconic brands, Romancing the Brand arms you with an arsenal of classic and emerging marketing tools—such as benefit laddering and word-of-mouth marketing—that make best-in-class brands so successful. The book is filled with examples, strategies, and tools from powerful brands that consumers love, including Coke, Dos Equis, smartwater, the Atlanta Falcons, Domino's Pizza, Bounty, Turner Classic Movies, and many more.

Ultimately, Romancing the Brand provides marketers with a set of principles for making brands strong, resilient, and beloved—and the insight and confidence to use them.

1

Romance and the Brand

I had already been in the dark room for three-and-a-half hours, a bowl of peanut M&Ms in front of me, observing groups of women through a two-way mirror that felt like something out of CSI, as they explained their beverage consumption habits. Observing focus groups was a common practice for Coca-Cola brand managers. We were always striving to understand our consumers better so that we might find a way to connect with them. Our ultimate goal was to give folks like the women in this room a reason to purchase our brand rather than the hundreds of other options available to them.

I found myself wondering how much of what I did every day—trying to meet the needs of a finicky consumer base with some creative new message or compelling product improvement—was pointless. Did consumers really care about these brands? Looking around the observation room, I saw six or seven colleagues in various stages of engagement: among others, the assistant brand manager taking copious notes that would ultimately summarize our findings to our senior management, the agency account rep trying to infer something brilliant from a consumer's comment, and the marketing research manager making sure the moderator on the other side of the glass was covering everything on our checklist. All of us waiting, observing, listening for anything we could use in developing next year's marketing campaign. We needed to understand these women's thoughts and feelings about our brands in order to do our jobs.

But then something happened that subtly but profoundly changed my perception of how we as marketers should think about brands and the role they play in our consumers' lives.

It wasn't a particularly dramatic moment. The eight women sat around the overflowing table of colored cans and bottles of soft drinks. They had just completed what we call a “sorting” exercise, in which participants arranged soft drink brands in groups based on some organizing principle that they were to develop themselves. I don't remember how they organized the forty-plus brands that day, but what happened next stuck with me. A petite woman in her late twenties, picked up one of the cans and said to the focus group moderator, “I drink eight of these a day. It is always with me, no matter what happens. It was there when my boss gave me my promotion last week. It was at my side two months ago when my cat died. It got me through it. I start and end my day with it. It's never lets me down. I can always count on it. To sum it up, it's my boyfriend … Diet Coke.”

My Beverage, My Boyfriend

A wave of laughter hit the room, so loud that I'm sure the respondents could hear us on the other side of the two-way mirror. I sat up. Did she really say that Diet Coke was her boyfriend? How could one think of a can of sugar water (actually aspartame water in this case) in boyfriend terms? Commitment, intimacy, dependability—she felt all of these, not about Diet Coke, but from it. She loved it as a constant companion, a support mechanism, a celebratory friend. This was preposterous, wasn't it? We can't connect with products the same way we connect with people!

But in some important ways, that is just what we do. Academic studies have proven it repeatedly.¹ We don't just consume or interact with brands. We actually engage in relationships with them. With some brands, we have wild, short-term flings. Others stay with us for a lifetime, like family. Some brands offer us strictly utilitarian relationships—they are in our daily lives, yet we have no emotional connection to them. Maybe the brand feels like good medicine, like a physician, or maybe it's a loose connection, like a distant uncle you rarely see. Or maybe you rely on it, like a teacher, a coach, or even a parent. Each product and each consumer—and each relationship between the two—is different. But the young woman who so eloquently expressed her feelings about Diet Coke crystallized for me the simple truth that consumers engage in relationships with brands. If marketers were going to succeed, we would have to go beyond thinking about consumers as “target markets” that we needed to make aware of our brand and convince to purchase it. We needed to think about engaging consumers in a long-term relationship.

Think about it from your perspective as a consumer. Is there a brand that means something, really means something to you? Maybe there is a certain brand of clothing that you seek out first in a store. What about a certain brand of shoes that you must have? Perhaps you are willing to drive an extra two miles down the road past your local grocery store to Trader Joe's. Maybe when you order a Coke and the waiter asks whether Pepsi is OK, you say that it's not. Maybe when planning a business trip, you invariably check to see if your preferred hotel has a location in the city you are visiting. Think back to your childhood. Was there a video game system or doll that you absolutely had to have? When you were a teenager, was there a band whose new album you waited for with anticipation, snatching it up the day it was released?

All of these are examples of brands—products, retailers, or even people that make up the fabric of your everyday life. Sure they provide you with some recognizable functional benefits—the look and feel of a Polo shirt, the variety of organic lines at Whole Foods, or the entertainment value of the latest Maroon 5 song, but they also provide you much more. Maybe you feel that a brand says something about you to others when you are consuming, wearing, or using it. Or maybe you feel that the brand has a personality that you can relate to. Perhaps a brand occupies not only a specific place in your mind but also a specific place in your heart.

Now think about the first time you encountered that brand. Do you have a distinct memory of it? Was it “love at first sight,” or did it take a while for you to adopt it? Has your relationship with that brand grown over time? Is it as strong today as it has ever been, or did it reach its peak some time ago and has now plateaued or even declined? Now imagine if that brand suddenly disappeared. How do things change? How do you feel? Can something easily replace it, or does its loss leave a hole in your life? Chances are that there are certain brands with which you've developed such a strong connection and with which you have engaged so frequently that if something were to happen, such as if they were discontinued or changed, you would feel a sense of loss—or even betrayal.

Having feelings toward brands seems to be a natural, powerful extension of how we're built as human beings. What does that mean to us as marketers? If we understand this, what do we do about it? Does it make sense for us to keep thinking about consumers as targets and demographic segments? Probably not. I'm convinced that this kind of thinking will only get us so far. I've come to believe that if marketers are going to succeed, we need to think about engaging consumers in a relationship—which, by definition, goes both ways. It has to be reciprocal. When a relationship is good, both parties get what they need the most and give their very best. The ideal brand-consumer relationship is one that is entered into by choice (because consumers always have a choice), that is both thrilling and dependable, and that is also based on trust: a romance.

Many brands—think Harley-Davidson, Apple, or Disney—have successfully created and cultivated a deep emotional connection with their consumer base. But how have they done it? And why does it matter today more than ever? Technology has given us a plethora of new tools that we don't fully understand or know how to use—primarily because we are trying to apply them within the context of an outdated way of thinking. If we don't think about marketing our brands in a completely different way—a way that is fundamentally based in the brand's relationship with the consumer—then we will never succeed. My goal in this book is to get you thinking about how to connect with the consumer by creating and nurturing a genuine relationship—one that's as exciting and enduring as a great romance.

New Perspectives and New Problems

At one point in time, marketers thought of brands as comprising attributes that encompass everything tangible about a product—its taste, packaging, ingredients, materials, logo, and so on. We sought to present these attributes in a way that met the needs of a certain identified consumer target group. In the language of classical marketing, the product's attributes together were supposed to “ladder up” to “functional benefits” that would help ease a consumer “pain point” or “need.” For example, everything about a pair of Nike running shoes, from the width to the cushioning to the waffle sole, would be designed to meet a particular consumer's need for running shoes.

To do this, Nike might take a group of consumers—marathon runners, say—and divide that group into segments, all of whom had different needs when running, and demanded different features. There were high-arched marathon runners and low-arched marathon runners. There were marathon runners with wide feet and those with narrow feet. There were runners whose feet turned in and others whose turned out. Nike would develop different shoes that functionally met the specific needs of each identified runner segment. The thinking was that consumers would choose a product based on how well its attributes met their needs, looking also at more intangible elements—such as brand familiarity, perceived quality, and perceived value—and evaluating these in light of the product's price. For many brands and many categories, companies and consumers alike perceived this as a strictly cost-benefit association. A consumer mind-set might be, “Provide me these benefits, and I may pay more for your brand than for other options.”

But marketers of some brands, especially those in cat­egories where consumer passion was particularly strong, increasingly developed and marketed key benefits that tied into a consumer's emotional need state. The principle was that consumers felt so strongly about these brands that they would insist on using them, and if they couldn't, they would feel deprived emotionally. Nike is again a good example: to an avid runner, her shoes are essential in her quest to run well, run efficiently, and ultimately achieve goals that she has set for herself. Nike's functionality—its design, its comfort level, its cushioning—feeds these more personal needs, and the consumer becomes engaged emotionally. With its game-changing “Just Do It” campaign—its imagery of athletes achieving goals, winning, and succeeding—Nike accented the emotional side of its value proposition. The campaign helped make that marathon runner more confident that she would triumph—partly because she was wearing Nike.

Although “Just Do It” famously tapped into the importance that a consumer can place on a brand—both emotionally and functionally—there were as yet few theories in academia and little practice in industry that linked this type of brand-consumer connection to a relationship model. Marketing people mostly still gave higher priority to the functional and transactional nature of the brand-consumer interaction and still thought of it in a short-term context. Brands had target consumers, and marketing teams would develop annual plans to source volume from those consumers. Understanding the longer-term value behind emotionally connected consumer interactions wasn't a priority.

Then, in the mid-1990s, two doctoral students in marketing, one on either side of the country, began putting together separate but compatible theories that (1) brands had distinguishable, identifiable personalities, and (2) every brand and every consumer did in fact engage in a relationship similar to human relationships. Together these two theories supported a powerful new way of understanding how consumers interact with brands on a personal level.

The daughter of prominent marketing thinker David Aaker, Jennifer Aaker had marketing in her blood. As a young Stanford graduate student getting a joint PhD in marketing and psychology, she brought together both disciplines to create an intriguing theory that would map the dimensions of human personality onto brands. She used the theory to create a framework for determining the ways that brands were personified by consumers. After having more than six hundred consumers free-associate about one hundred personality attributes across a range of brands, Aaker found that consumers' perceptions of brand personalities closely mirrored their perception of human personalities. In other words, as consumers, we can be attracted to a brand not just by what it does for us functionally (following the conventional wisdom about why consumers chose products and brands), but by how well our personality fits what we perceive to be the brand's personality. In a way not unlike how we respond to other human beings, we might even be attracted to brands whose personalities we might not have, but might secretly desire (the classic “opposites attract” phenomenon).²

Meanwhile, Susan Fournier, an ex–Young and Rubicam advertising vice president who was now pursuing a PhD in marketing at the University of Florida, proposed a theory that would give insight into the relationships of brands and consumers. To develop her thesis, she went deep into the lives and brand choices of three women who represented different life stages, locations, and backgrounds.³ She spent a significant amount of time with them, following their every move and experiencing their lives as they experienced them. In the time that she spent with these consumers, she found that brands were an inextricable part of their lives and saw that a mutual dependency existed in which the brand's stories and the individuals' life stories linked together.⁴ From this understanding, she began to define a number of different relationships between consumers and brands. Relationships could range from competitive/hostile (your relationship with your cable company) to cooperative/friendly (maybe your relationship with your tennis racket) and from superficial/weak (perhaps your relationship with your dishwashing soap) to intense/strong (possibly your relationship with your toothpaste).⁵ In short, the range of brand-consumer relationships was eerily similar to the range of human relationships. She concluded that the strongest brand-consumer relationships exhibited qualities comparable to those of happily married couples.

The work of these two researchers (as well as a plethora of additional marketing and psychological studies that have since been conducted on the topic) demonstrates that brand-consumer relationships do exist, are genuine, and have the ability to connect people to brands in unexpectedly deep and emotional ways.⁶ This leads again to the bigger question that this book asks: What should we marketers do about it?

Meanwhile, beyond the halls of academia, marketing practice was evolving. Instead of just communicating product attributes and functional benefits, marketers across multiple product categories began to place a heavier emphasis on the emotional appeal in their messaging. Marketers of fashion, fragrances, soft drinks, beer, and athletic brands (to name a few) were starting to discover that making an emotional connection with a consumer was yet another way to differentiate their brands from the competition in crowded categories. Communications began focusing on brand “extrinsics” (the brand's personality and emotional qualities) rather than product “intrinsics” (the product's functional attributes ...

Table of contents

• Cover
• Endorsements
• Title page
• Copyright page
• Dedication
• 1: Romance and the Brand
• 2: Know Yourself
• 3: Know Your Type
• 4: Meet Memorably
• 5: Make It Mutual
• 6: Deepen the Connection
• 7: Keep Love Alive
• 8: Making Up
• 9: Breaking Up and Moving On
• Acknowledgments
• About the Author
• More from Wiley
• Index